The Terrifyingly Nasty, Backstabbing, and Altogether Miserable World of the Suburban Mom

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Photograph by Stacy Newgent

My husband and I moved to Wayland (population 13,000) from Jamaica Plain eight years ago. I’d been a magazine editor but had to stop working when my twin boys were born five weeks premature. I didn’t know anyone in town, and my efforts to meet new friends were impeded by February snowstorms and twin infants with severe reflux and colic. And then I heard rumors of a social clique called the Wayland Yacht Club, an exclusive group of couples who hosted elaborate gatherings at one another’s manses every month. At first I was appalled. Aside from the fact that Wayland isn’t on the water (it’s about as landlocked as you can get in the Boston suburbs), it just felt so, well, middle school to form a clique—and to give it a hoity-toity name to underscore its exclusivity. Who does that? Weren’t we beyond such pettiness? And then an unbidden thought flitted through my mind: Wait, why wasn’t I invited?

Here I’d thought all moms were in this muddle together—one big happy family, for better or for worse—when actually, just the opposite is true. It turns out that suburban life is dictated by the kind of tribal behavior I thought we’d grown out of: popular girls and their obsequious minions willing to do anything to fit in. But this time, with kids, money, and jobs on the line, the stakes are even higher. And so you have countless grown women cowering behind their beautifully trimmed hedges in bucolic towns around Boston, trying to avoid getting “fired” from their friend circle while simultaneously hating every minute they have to spend with those ladies who lunch. It’s a mom-eat-mom world out there, and I was pretty sure the Wayland Yacht Club was just the tip of the iceberg in this particular suburban nightmare.

It’s not like we women weren’t warned: Facebook CEO Sheryl Sandberg told us to keep working after we had kids—that it is possible to achieve an enjoyable work-family balance. Yet 5 million of us nationwide have stepped away from our successful careers to raise our progeny. And in her new book All Joy and No Fun: The Paradox of Modern Parenthood, journalist Jennifer Senior details how having children can profoundly strain our psychology, our marriage, and our soul. Now I’m jumping into the conversation. I’ve found that the ennui new mothers feel when they quit their jobs and move out of the city can cause even the most confident of women to regress emotionally. Case in point: While many women were all too happy to share their stories with me, they were so afraid of mean-mom repercussions that they insisted I change their names and some of the details of their lives.

Like many women I interviewed, I’d always had an idyllic vision of myself perkily pushing a pram to the neighborhood tot lot alongside fellow moms. The reality of suburbia, with its expansive yards and lack of sidewalks, found me hefting my Bugaboo into the trunk of my Honda Pilot and driving across town to a playground, hoping to find a friendly face before the babies had to feed again. Living like this can exacerbate the isolation many moms feel.

That’s why, when you finally do meet someone to connect with, you latch on perhaps a little tighter than you would have in your old life. If the new friend comes with a built-in support system in the form of a gaggle of other moms, even better. Within a few years, you may discover that the only thing you all have in common is the age of your children, but by that time, it’s too late—you’ve shed your previous life and that random group of women has become the nexus of a tangled web of social obligations and expectations. Until, that is, you get voted off the island by the very people who were once your salvation. Then you can find yourself profoundly alone.

That’s how Emily’s life played out. When she and her husband, Tim, had their first child, they followed the migratory path of nearly every other couple they knew: They sold their condo in the South End and decamped to a suburb with good schools. But it wasn’t long before Emily, who’d quit a full-time teaching job to care for their newborn, found herself desperate for company in their tiny town of 5,000 west of Boston. Desperate, that is, until she met Veronica.

Attractive and outgoing, Veronica came with a posse of seven new moms who provided instant structure for Emily’s suburban life. Soon, the nine of them did everything together: play dates, cookouts, girls’ getaways to the Berkshires while their husbands played golf. “We were all the same age, had gone to the same schools, had kids at the same time, and went to the same church,” Emily says. Life was beautiful.

And then one Saturday afternoon a few years later, Emily went out to play tennis with college friends while Tim took the kids to their soccer game. All the guys were there, but the wives weren’t—turns out Veronica was hosting all of them at her Little Compton beach house. Everyone, that is, except Emily. Confused that his wife had been left out, Tim turned to Veronica’s husband and asked, “But what did Emily do?” His answer: “Oh, I’m sure nothing.” Later, Veronica explained to Emily that there simply hadn’t been enough room for everyone. “But,” Emily tells me, “I’d been to her house before—I knew that wasn’t true.”

Veronica’s betrayal signaled more than the end of a few friendships. In their small town, Emily couldn’t avoid the group of women Veronica commandeered, and their attendant thin-lipped smiles. They served as room parents for her three sons’ classrooms, they were on the board of the parent-teacher association, they volunteered at the library. Emily saw them at the market, church, Cub Scout meetings. Veronica was even the emergency contact for Emily’s kids (perhaps the highest compliment you can pay to a mother friend). “It was the hugest slap in the face,” says Emily, who adds that she was “completely blindsided” by her expulsion. Finally, emotionally exhausted, Emily told her husband, “We need to move.”

 

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  • R S

    I feel like there are Mean Girls everywhere. I really thought that this behavior was best left in middle school, but both men and women participate in this behavior at work. Anything that makes you stand out is a threat to those who will do anything to fit in. Anyone who refuses to participate in it is singled out as a target. That’s why people go along with it.

  • Megan

    Don’t quit your job, ladies.

  • mj

    Sounds like you have a self esteem thing going on – you think by inviting 85 women to your party, they’re your friends? I can count my friends on one hand, the others are acquaintances. Stop worrying about what anyone thinks of you and be thankful for what sounds like a wonderful family and life. Girls are mean. Girls are sensitive. That’s life. No woman goes through life “unscathed.” Even the Queen Bees. :)

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=94rcOVJBMYQ Winston Blake

      judaic bolshevist mammonism (baphomet) = mahomet (muslim brotherhood)

      It is the same devil.

  • Guest

    The author’s mother talks more sense then every other person in this piece combined, including the author.

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  • Commentator

    True, true, true.

  • KAREN MILLER

    sounds like fiction to me.
    Wayland is one of the most welcoming communities filled with interesting, fun loving and caring women. If this was her experience, it is unfortunate, sometimes you get back the energy that you put out.

    • Suburbmom

      You must be a member of the yacht club. The author portrays an incredibly accurate description of the social climate in Wayland.

      • KAREN MILLER

        i dont even know what the yacht club is….
        def not a member.

  • Beverley Strain

    This reminds me of the first chapter of Little Children by Tom Perrotta. It is entirely about a Queen Bee and her minions at the park. A little frightening! I would love to think we left this behavior in high school, but some people just don’t want to let go!

  • BV Beauregarde

    Oh my god, rich people problems….

  • Synchromesh

    This reminds me why I left that awful hell hole named Boston. And why I cannot stand the ma$$holes that live there. Also, such first world white people problems. How pathetic.

  • over it

    I’m pretty tired of women tearing other women down. And isn’t that essentially exactly what this article is doing? People gossip. They lie. They’re self motivated. Men do it in business all the time. It’s an unfortunate truth in our society. I’d like to see an establishment like Boston magazine look deeper into the behavior of the politicians who run this town rather than the petty, minor offenses of a few bored housewives.

  • mam

    I am shocked and saddened by the harshness of some of the comments below. This is one of the most honest, accurate and selfless pieces I have read in a long time. This has been my reality since moving to my upscale and quaint little “burb 9 years ago. I suppose, in the end, I am better off being a “cast off” than continuing to be “in”. At this stage of life, I thought I might have to help my children deal with these issues, not cope with them myself. It never ceases to amaze me how ugly women can be to other women. Totally disheartening.

  • Lioness

    All true. And you forgot ‘attacking people’s poignant and all too true articles and Facebook posts’ on this matter and any other honest accounts. I agree that FB exacerbates the behavior.

  • Maureen

    Wow. One of the most mean-spirited articles I’ve ever had the displeasure to read. I’m sure the women of Wayland are thrilled to have their neighbor reduce them to caricatures of mean mom or mindless minion. It must be part fictional because the suburbs don’t have that many petty and insecure women. (A doctor and a social worker really acting like little girls? I highly doubt it) And don’t get me started on all the trite stereotypes littered throughout regarding clothing, car choice, etc. Like another commenter offered, sometimes the energy you put out is the energy you get back.

    • Guest

      It’s happening in winchester as we speak. Not only have I had the displeasure of meeting the queen bee and her minions, I had the lovely experience of rejecting the lot of them. That felt phenomenal.

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=94rcOVJBMYQ Winston Blake
  • Allison Hagy Lantieri

    Honestly? First world problems. I’m disgusted reading this. If your self-worth is wrapped up in how some Prada-wearing, gossiping pissant views you, you have bigger problems. And 85 people invited to a birthday party, and a stressful time while buying a ski lodge? Laughable. Sorry your issues are wether the woman in the Land Roer with the ACK sticker waves at you or not. Grow up.

  • KB

    This article, largely due to the headline, is throwaway click bait. The author talked to some very wealthy women and found that they encountered cliques. And sometimes got their feelings hurt. And…..? She should have taken the premise at the very beginning – about suburbs not being walkable, and having to drive to the playground – and run with it. I would have loved to read an article about how the planning of our towns and neighborhoods affects our interactions and quality of life.

  • http://www.fibrowitch.net Jan Dumas

    Wow your life is so tough! here I am hoping I have enough money to make it until payday and you are upset because the cool parents don’t like you. Boo hoo Cliques are every where, because cliques are our default social group.

    If any of the woman you spoke to want to get away from the 1% I would like to mention Revere has some great schools, a beach and your children could learn so many languages just by talking to the kid next door. Sadly it’s not trendy yet, and I want to keep it that way.

  • Socially awkward mom

    Great article! I thank the author for her courage, insight, and wittiness! I have often felt alone due to such experiences, and even blame my recent divorce on the isolation I experienced living in a community not far from Wayland.
    It is refreshing to know I do not stand alone. And though there are many worse things that can be experienced in life, it is all relative…The article is well written and encourages conversation, debate, and insight. I appreciate her being able to evoke the controversy and emotions from opposing sides.

    • Don H

      I’m not sure what is so courageous about an article that quotes a bunch of anonymous, purposely-chosen women.

  • catsandroses

    hmmm. I moved from Wayland to South Carolina in August after 33 years of living there.. Sure, there are a handful of ladies I knew who could have fit right into the article but there were such a teensy number of them- who could be bothered? and more importantly, who would be bothered if not in that group?? What I loved about my life in Wayland was that you were judged not by what you wore, drove or your address but what kind of citizen you were. Maybe the author has not lived there long enough,, met the other side of people or maybe life has totally changed since I raised my kids there.
    Having said that, I can look back and say we were in a rarified circle of income and education living in the western suburbs that we didn’t quite realize at the time..most everyone was a form of “just like us” with more or less income. We moved there before kids out of sheer dumb luck. living down here, I drive from my gated neighborhood (as 90% of the areas are) and see the incredible poverty in the area and realize how sheltered we were living in Wayland.

    would we have liked a ski or beach house while there? sure but it didn’t work out and we had kind friends who had those great things. was it important? no, not really nor were we ostracized for not having those.

    but I will say two things.. now that I’m away, the friendliness and real warmth of new friends and people here is outstanding. And while we in New England think of ourselves as liberal and open minded, if your kid doesn’t fit into the “standard box model”, you will get the opinions, comments and all the garbage that goes along with it.. that applied to two of my three boys. did I love it? yes.. would I go back? not on your life!

  • deepbrook

    Ms. Suratt writes, “Aside from the fact that Wayland isn’t on the water (it’s about as landlocked as you can get in the Boston suburbs), it just felt so, well, middle school to form a clique—and to give it a hoity-toity name to underscore its exclusivity.” Perhaps a geography lesson is in order. Wayland is FAR less landlocked than most communities in the Boston suburbs, as it borders Lake Cochituate. And while there may not be all that many yachts on the lake, there are plenty of small watercraft of all types–sailboats included.

    The Wayland I’ve seen over the last 20 years is one made up of countless circles of friends and acquaintances. I’ve been a strong part of some of them, aware of others, and undoubtedly oblivious to many more. I gravitated to the ones whose company I enjoyed. Perhaps the author might do the same.

  • stayathomemom

    The mean-spirited comments about this article proves the author’s point. “First world problems” “wow, your life is so tough,” etc. Why belittle someone with these comments? This article is accurate, timely, true, and courageous. If you are socially excluded and staying at home with young children, it can lead to depression. If someone were depressed, would you say “first world problems” and “snap out of it” to them? The author successfully points out a trend in behavior that is becoming more prevalent. Mean girls–the high school queen bees–are becoming mean women. I have seen this kind of behavior in the metrowest and it appalls me. I work at home and have refused to buy into the cliques but it is still hurtful to be excluded and worse yet, when my kids have been excluded. I lived in Wayland for many years and saw this behavior first hand. We moved and are much happier.

    • Afr0

      What, exactly, is courageous about calling out a bunch of selfish, self-important ladies who have the value system of rabid animals? Fear of being ostracized by them? Wouldn’t that be more of a “You all don’t like me or want me in your group? THANK GOD!!!” moment?

  • M. Camm

    I wish Boston Magazine would cover Boston politics and culture the way New York Magazine covers New York. This should have been renamed Metro West Magazine long ago.

    Meanwhile, I wonder about the maturity and wisdom of grown women who allow themselves to be seduced by the Queen Bee and her clique. I cannot fathom investing time, money and mental energy in their silly games and status seeking ways. The are so many more rewarding things to do with one’s time. Seek people who share your values and you will not worry about being “excluded” by shallow, materialistic nitwits.

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=94rcOVJBMYQ Winston Blake

      You “wish Boston Magazine would cover Boston politics and culture” ???

      The Democrat party is just one big terror cell…

  • http://www.twitter.com/stevenkane Steven Kane

    The vacuousness of the suburbs – shocking! shocking! Can somebody please wake me when this magazine publishes something worth reading?

  • BN

    We live in the city and THIS IS FREAKIN WHY!!
    Actually, another HUGE reason: why would I want my kids (daughter especially) seeing this kind of nonsense and growing up around such a value system? I cannot stand the wealthy suburbs in greater Boston–and we have the money to live in one. You could not find a greater hell for me. I would sooner move to Swansea than Wellesley. At least my child would see a good work ethic and I might have people around me that are KIND.

    • Amelia

      you don’t see it unless your purposefully put yourself in this social environment. I don’t and I get to enjoy my backyard and quiet street in the suburbs without any “drama.”

      • BN

        I can see that, but I think some of these suburbs are insane where the value system is a force field that is in your face at every turn, no matter what road you are on.

  • BN

    Adding: fast forward 15yrs and see how the kids of these women turn out. What kind of parenting can occur when Mom is out partying most nights of the week and on weekends?

  • http://www.lalapaints.com/ Lauren Kaplan Rutley

    rewrite this as the suburban SINGLE mom and it gets 100x nastier. i’m permanently on the outs now and i’m fine by that. the people i shared a “community” with when i was married made me sick on a daily basis.

    • JohnKHeinz

      Cannot imagine the pain Lauren. I was thinking while reading the article about those who had to go through a divorce. How horrible! Divorce is bad enough in most of America, but Wayland much be the worst place in America to have to divorce. Truth is, they are all probably sleeping around with one another. They can have it!

  • Judy ODonnell

    be elusive. it drives people crazy! haha! women can be brutal!

  • waymom

    We also live in Wayland. We moved there because of the reputable school system and the suburban lifestyle. My children are very young but I have seen a few instances of “Queen Bee” and “cliques” but to be honest, these are in every town. I grew up in a city mainly of a working class population and there were still “cliques”. You just have know when to distance yourself – and always be respectful to everyone. Just treat people like you would like to be treated. Wayland is not a bad town, its just another suburb….

  • Anne

    Dang. I live in Cambridge– not the city, but by footsteps closer to boston than porter. I occasionally long for (clean) green space. It’s dense, urban, economically and ethnically mixed, and has a sometimes-amazing, sometimes-not school system. I worked the entire time my kids were growing up. Kids loved growing up here and having options of the city. We love it, too. BUT there were queen bees here, just the same. Wealthier and charismatic mothers who were high-achieving but now not working. They expressed power any way they could—primarily through schools & kids. We’re not immune here, but it’s easier to keep distant. The number and variety of parents, plus different sources for companionship (work, neighborhood, husband’s work, non-town specific kids’ activities) makes it easier. Now older and empty nest, I often meet with women friends from all of those sources. Some work, some don’t, some have kids, some don’t, some are wealthy, some not, some are city-dwellers, some are far suburbs. Over the years you find the good ones and hold on to them. Good luck. And if the burbs get too tough, come on back.

  • BN

    Adding a final comment…
    Women have different definitions of ‘arriving’ in life.
    These women in these suburbs like this, many of them, define their arrival in life as marrying a wealthy man and the lifestyle that comes from it. I guarantee if you pull off the veneers you have alot of lonely, miserable women who are cliquing b/c their husbands are never home (working 8million hrs to support said lifestyle). Alot of these women overdrink and/or use drugs. It is sad. Women and girls, feminism is not arriving by marrying a wealthy man and living in an expensive place. Arriving to me is personal success–whatever that may be–but done on your own and/or in conjunction w/ a partner. These women are not in partnerships and you can also dissect the power dynamic that goes on in their household as they are increasingly dependent on their hubby to support their lavish lifestyle. All sad. I owe my daughter a better lesson in feminism than to take her to a suburban place like the W suburbs.

    • Amelia

      Even in the “W” suburbs, this is a small slice of people. All my neighbors work reasonable hours and lead fairly normal, if upper-middle class lives. Most people I know (at preschool, in my neighborhood, etc.) drive normal cars or minivans – not much glamour there. So yes, of course the people you describe exist, but they are no where near the majority. You would have to seek out these groups – something most of us in my W town choose not to do.

      • BN

        I am sure you are right, but I do have a sibling who lives in a W ‘burb and my frequent visits there over the years reinforce just the opposite–
        I see the majority of people there like the author describes–maybe not all mean or whatnot, but certainly all about a certain lifestyle and image.
        And many, my sibling included, purposefully sought out that environment b/c in the Boston area and in certain professions it is all about your zip code and where these types live. Most people there are there for more than ‘the good schools’. I just like my life in the city where we see diversity of income, industry, ethnicity and lifestyle at every turn–going to the grocery store, the playground, etc.

        • Amelia

          well, maybe I just live on the wrong side of the tracks in my town. But I can honestly say that I have not noticed anything like this in Winchester so, while it may be here (I don’t doubt it) it is quite easy to avoid – just don’t go looking for those kinds of people. Easy!

    • Mommy’s Brain

      You being so judgemental about women in the W towns is no better than the queen bees in these towns. The article was about a small segment of women. It’s sad to see you perpetuating the stereotype. I live in a W town and though there is a small percentage of these women, it is not the norm. Most of us are just trying to be good moms, partners, friends, people…Regardless of if we work or stay home, what kind of car we drive, what kind of home we live in.

      • BN

        Disagree w/ one part you say–small segment of women.
        It is a large segment in many of these suburbs. Even if you walk to the beat of your own drum, the general vibe is always there in the background. It’s all about choices and where you want you and your family to be, what you want them exposed to–in school, sleepovers, etc.

        • Mommy’s Brain

          I agree with your statement “It’s all about choices and where you want you and your family to be, what you want them exposed to”. That’s why we as parents have to do our best to keep our kids grounded and around “good influences” as much as we can, regardless of where we live. If you believe that you would be unable to do this for your children in one of these suburbs, then that is entirely your choice and right. But until you’ve lived in one of these towns as a parent, I’m not sure it’s entirely fair to judge us all under this one stereotype. I assure you, we are not all bitchy, money-hungry, social-ladder climbing monsters! I swear! Most of us are quite lovely. ;)

  • Neena

    Fascinating article. Well done. I’ve been watching a Queen Bee in Newton take over our condo board. Anyone who disagrees with her gets buried socially. Mean girls could give Putin a master class.

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=94rcOVJBMYQ Winston Blake

      Russia has real soldiers on their border and no gay pride marches in their army… imagine that…

  • Mommy’s Brain

    This article took some guts to write. I live in one such suburb. I feel that I have cultivated (and yes, it does take work!) a grounded, fun group of moms whom I call friends. But, I can certainly see how this dynamic that the author writes about is alive and well. It’s shocking to me that grown women who are all dealing with the insanity of parenthood have time to be involved in such pettiness. And really, why would any sane person with a good head on her shoulders want to be friends with the type of people the author calls out? You’re well educated. You’ve had/have successful careers. You’ve reared children. GROW UP!!

  • Patricia Rush

    This dynamic happens in the workplace as well. I’ve often been “outed” by groups based on my success and by being single. Same happened when my kids were little. I volunteered for every team mom position, hosted the kids for parties, camping trips, etc but the moms never let me in. To them I was a threat. Not to sound arrogant but at the time I was very successful in my career and made time to look my best. I worked out and was considered quite attractive. Married moms don’t want someone like that around their husbands or involved in their cliques. Plus, I didn’t really have much to talk to them about. I was a career woman and single trying to provide the best for my kids, not a stay at home mom so my struggles were different. In retrospect, I was always hoping to be included and felt that sting of not being one of the chosen but I had more fun spending time with my kids and their friends that doing things with their parents anyway. Mine was the house with the open door and I loved it. Even though some of the mom’s took advantage of it by using me as a unofficial care taker so they could go do their activities with other moms. Yes, that bothered me a long but in hindsight, I wouldn’t have played things any differently.

    • Tina

      Altruism is not a way to make friends, but it can make your life as a self-perceived “outie” feel purposeful and bearable. And that show of character can only rub off on your kids in the right way! Who DOESN’T want socially mature, community-spirited kids?

  • Shoot BlueJay not Mockingbird

    This was one of the most enjoyable articles I’ve read in Boston Magazine in a long time. It brought back SO MANY memories of navigating through pregnancy, playdates, playgrounds, preschool, PTO, sports and girls nights out. The competition, the one-ups and the social climbing is extremely stressful IF YOU LET IT BE. I’m not sure the writer’s message was 1) Poor me, 2) I’m bitter, 3) This is high priority 4) Be Meaner than they are or 5) Participate at all costs. Wasn’t she just providing some interesting perspectives on mom friendships in the burbs? I enjoyed it as a light read because I lived it and enjoy hearing the different stories of others. I came away wanting more stories or examples of women/people not being nice to each other. But, I also came away from it with the validation that it was out there all the time. I wasn’t making it up(so my husband thought). There were women who didn’t want me to go to the movies with them because my name wasn’t hyphenated or their children couldn’t play with mine at my house because we weren’t vegans. I laughed then and laugh now. It’s all you can do. Finding long lasting friendships where all parties benefit are difficult. Finding couple friendships is EVEN harder. Of course all this doesn’t happen in JUST Wayland, Massachusetts, I’ve experienced it in 3 different communities to date. It doesn’t mean I don’t have a great group of friends from all parts of my life. I have great friends that just took a little longer to find. Equate it to kissing frogs before finding my prince here in Wayland. Isn’t it better knowing it’s out there than not? Thanks for the read Julie. Looking forward to more of your thoughts on things. YOU OR YOUR KIDS SHOULD NOT EXPECT TO BE INVITED TO EVERYTHING GOING ON AROUND YOU. GROW UP.

  • Ili

    We moved to Wayland a year and a half ago and I truly believe everything is what you make it to be. Having lived in 3 different countries while raising our children, you can encounter these people anywhere and in any social class, in the city or in the suburbs. So far our experience in Wayland has been very positive. I have made wonderful friends through 1) TCC church 2) WCPA (Wayland Children and Parents Association) and 3) through my kids school. I have not yet encountered any women like the ones described in the article, if anything when we moved here I was pleasantly surprised at how down to earth most people seemed to be. I remember arriving to my first playgroup and noticing how casual and friendly everyone was, no showing off, no hair and nails done, just moms being themselves and kids having fun. It was very refreshing. In this day and age, who has time for drama?

    • Randi

      My experience in Wayland has been very similar to yours. I actually can’t visualize the moms that Suratt is talking about (although I’m sure they’re there). I’m been so pleasantly surprised by how many down to earth and welcoming moms I’ve met in this community.

  • Guest

    spot on article….everyone is sharing it on facebook! This has most definitely been my experience in Burlington….you can’t make this non-sense up! It’s funny I recently visited my parents at their 55 and over gated community in Florida and it is the SAME EXACT THING! The last line of this article is hysterical!

  • Sarah

    I think what we all need to remember is that there are Queen Bees anywhere. From Mattapan to Weston to Roxbury to Wellesley. All communities are built of a variety of types of personalities, no matter what class you are in. This article fails to highlight the selfless and kind people in these communities that do so much to better society.

  • Libby

    I’m a highschooler in Wayland, and I am lucky that my mother is who she is. We’re a simple family from Vermont, so when my mom came to my middle school open house and saw these cliques of five or so moms (who all looked the same; blonde hair, huge sunglasses perched on their heads, lulu lemon tracksuits paired with expensive jewelery), she had the sense to stay away from all of that. I think that the reason why she hasn’t been isolated so far is because she sought out the other mothers who didn’t buy into the cliquiness that seems to radiate from almost everyone here. There’s always a few outliers in every community, just like there is in highschool. Like mother like daughter, eh?

  • alexandra

    I saw mean girls in my mother’s assisted living unit. One pretty older woman, always dressed up for lunch, would get whispered about when she entered the dining room. This table full of meanies would lean into each other and say, “look at her. Who does she think she is, dressing up like that. She just loves attention.” And they’d go round and round and this poor pretty lady, in gold earrings and flower brooches, would sit by herself. Cold shouldered out of the main group. I thought, “You mean it NEVER stops???”

  • http://springsforward.wordpress.com Carrie

    The best thing about leaving the Brookline schools and transferring to a Dorchester elementary school was the moms. I blogged about it recently: http://springsforward.wordpress.com/2014/03/14/my-journey-to-pto/

  • kimtracyprince

    I don’t think you’re unscathed. There is NO way you would write this if you hadn’t had a personal motivation. Spill it.

  • Kerri

    I love this! All true in my experience living in the ‘burbs south of Boston. I have never really fit into one group, and you can imagine the difficulty I had socially when I moved to a homogenous, relatively upscale town in MA 3 years ago and immediately got chickens, set up a compost bin, a bee hive and… we also mow our own lawn and rake our own leaves (gasp!). When ladies come to my house (which is nice, but not fancy), they are greeted by my spirited children, two barking dogs, my minivan with an Obama sticker (the only one in town, I believe), and have to navigate around chicken droppings in their expensive shoes. It’s a bit amusing, sometimes ;) But they still come, and I still get invited to the occasional soiree, book club and wine tasting party. But I know I’m not part of the groups you referred to, or besties with a Queen Bee… and that’s OK with me. I make a HUGE effort to celebrate my own differences (often publicly, to let people know I’m OK with being different) and to not take others’ judgements too personally. Admittedly, it can get tiring constantly swimming upstream, and I really hope it doesn’t have a negative effect on my kids as they get older (with social exclusions).

  • justinbobby

    Thank you for putting this out there. I live in the city, but have many mom friends in the suburbs and a partner trying to convince me to join them. This is something so many of my friends privately complain about. While I agree with other commenters that this Queen Bee phenomena can happen anywhere, there is a kind of isolation that happens in certain communities where there aren’t many places to meet/socialize with women and that exacerbates how one may feel if not part of the clique. In the city there are just more opportunities to meet new people/couples/parents and to distract yourself from any Queen Bees. I hope more moms write articles like this and we all learn to treat each-other with a little more compassion and understanding.

  • Mary Jane

    I’m so glad this article is published. A few years ago I have shared stories and my experience with a clique of moms where we did cookie swaps, wine tasting parties, Friday night beer nights/play date with the kids, couples bowling, etc. And although it was all good, fun and comforting, it was also demanding, very judgmental and you kinda had to fit in all the time. It got tiring. No one believed me that all this ‘fitting in’ was true, they thought I was just making up or exaggerating the stories. I remember the words I used to describe all of this: ‘I feel like I live in a town where it’s all cookie-cutter and we have to fit in the mold.’ Well guess what? I certainly don’t want to fit in YOUR mold. The kids raised in our town are all so spoiled and the schools raise these kids in a very safe and politically correct environment. Once they reach middle school, they start suing their teachers. It’s not a joke. There were so many cases. I hated my sought-after town. Though we did have a choice to move to Wayland, we decided to leave the state altogether – for so many reasons to include the above mentioned in the article. These moms spend so much more time on whatever stuff they do, they follow the statistics on the best school system yet they overlook – what kind of a kid are you raising? A sad reality of life and you’ll find them – all over the world and all over Facebook. I don’t miss any of this now. My family and I are very happy where we are and away from all this.

  • Sarah

    As a mom of three, I found this article a bit sad-especially “Emily” who wanted to run away from her perceived popularity problems by moving. Seriously?? Some friends come and go, and it sounds like there are many moms who need to grow up and stop concerning themselves with what other people think and do!
    Focus on the good in your life, be a good and friendly person, and you will be happy. Stop unwittingly giving these cliques power by obsessing over them…I guess high school never ends if you choose to perpetuate the drama by fawning over cliques of snobbish moms…

  • Don H

    Are we supposed to feel a great deal of empathy for these women? They live in the most expensive communities in the state, and can afford to do so on their husbands’ salaries alone. You don’t like the social scene in your town? You have three choices:
    1) move
    2) find friends elsewhere
    3) deal with it

    But for Pete’s sake, stop whining about it and appreciate how lucky you are and what you have.

    • Tricia

      If only it was that easy. You can’t just move when your husband’s career is in a certain town. What are you supposed to do, go try to find friends three towns over? Unfortunately I’ve dealt with this a lot since moving to our upscale, cliquey little town. I’ve very grateful that my husband has a good job, and my kids go to good schools, and we have a nice home. I’m NOT grateful that I have to deal with 35yo mean-girls.

      • Jatryon24

        I’m a nice girl who lives in a nice town and I have really nice friends. Keep looking and don’t settle. My mother in law lives in Wellesley and she is the nicest person I know.

      • Mithu Lahiri

        LOVE your reply. I think if you’re willing to “call a spade, a spade,” then you will understand the crux of this article: 35-50 year old mean girls didn’t just become that way, they were enabled by their own mean or complacent mothers AND now, these women are teaching the same thing to their children, who are behaving the same way at school. We need to put a stop to this vicious cycle.

        • hJs

          Its a heart issue having to do with sin. It has also gotten worse-people are just so hard on one another.

      • redsongia

        Here’s a little trick I learned at Berkeley (forgive my name drop); if you don’t want weird people to come up and talk to you, walk through the streets as if you suffer from spasms. Also, it helps to drool a little. Problem solved!

      • hJs

        The mean woman-girl, man-boy issue is everywhere…even down here in the “southern hospitality” neck of the woods. People are just going from bad to worse. Analyzing other people’s worth based upon superficial criteria is just crazy.

  • Jatryon24

    I agree with Don… I am a working professional with an 8 year old and 6 year old twins. My husband grew up in Wellesley and I made a conscious choice not to live there because I had neither the time nor the energy to deal with all that the town “offered.” I have little patience for those that sit around bemoaning their lifestyle when the have the means to change it for the better. Move…and if you don’t want to do that because you think the schools are so superb or you need to be able to tell someone you live in an affluent community then…get a grip and make friends because they are nice people and you share values and interests. The most valued person is the one who values him/her self. That was true in high school and is still true today. Create your own group of thoughtful, kind, intelligent women and stop trying to fit in to the existing hierarchy. Only then can you make true change and, most importantly, you will be setting a great example for your children in the long run.

  • disqus_ZmodM7Z3JM

    Nothing about this article is truth, it is all perception. But it does no favors to women. Not a positive contribution. Not all women who live west of Boston are vacuous a-holes. It gives me a headache, and it’s a bummer that it is currently ranked as more popular than the article about the Todashev confession. Let’s get back to real issues.

  • Rich

    This is so true in todays woman….none of this was going on 30 years ago because there was no social media, only a telephone and the inner sewing cirlce at the local coffee shop….there are plenty of nice women out there today and some that are just miserable- The ones who act miserable only feel better if they make others feel miserable as well…Maybe some of these women need to relive their high school years when they were once popular, or maybe they have the need to have a higher social/money status than they really have or out live there means of living…i have many friends who are famous and are millionaires and even billionaires, and none of them act like this ( well maybe one or two)Believe me, those women who act pompous and self righteous- men see right thru it…

    My only advice for todays woman is this—be true to yourself and others, always have a smile, have fun but include everyone and remember, its all about the kids..

    as a great man once said “A heart is not judged by how much you love; but by how much you are loved by others”

    • Mithu Lahiri

      You get the point of this article, where SO many commenters here don’t. I don’t understand how it evaded so many minds here that this article highlighted how vicious some people are; and these people are raising children who will probably bully their classmates or, at least be bystanders to such heinous behaviour. But I disagree somewhat with your point about men not having this problem. I’ve seen men who support this behaviour, which is just as bad.

  • Daphna

    The author describes some of these women as being frustrated ex-professionals. Well, local historical societies, conservation groups, and places of worship all need young, energetic volunteers with skills. Volunteering is a great way to meet those with similar interests and it also gives you perspective from people of diverse ages and backgrounds. I volunteer at several local organizations in my western ‘burb and it’s fulfilling and refreshing to use my non-“mom” skills. I feel that the subjects of this piece are wasting their talents and energy on social climbing when they could be improving their communities.

    • Jatryon24

      Give platelets, it takes two hours, you get a snack, someone’s life is saved… Far more enjoyable then spending time with someone who just wants to keep tabs on you.

  • DisappointedDad

    On a day when we should be focusing on the loss of two brave firefighters, I’m saddened that I feel the need to comment on this article. If anything, the tragedy that occurred yesterday should serve as a reminder as to what is really important in life.

    I was disappointed to see the attempt at creating controversy regarding the behavior of some women in Wayland and a decade old mysterious clique. While I commend Ms. Suratt for discussing the challenges that many moms face when moving into new towns and trying to find a social outlet for themselves and their families, I felt that the article’s title and first page were written for pure shock value and that it was in fact hurtful to the many women who work tirelessly to support educational programs in Wayland. This would have been a tremendous opportunity
    to generate a dialogue on how difficult it can be for highly educated women with college, graduate and doctoral degrees and significant experience in a variety of professional fields to channel their energy, passion, ideas and expertise when no longer managing teams, revolutionizing businesses or driving growth for organizations both small and large. Instead, the article suggested a “holier than thou” attitude where a group of friends gathering for social events is considered exclusive.

    While I agree that any social event or club, regardless of intent,
    is exclusive by nature, the “Wayland yacht club” was actually designed to introduce people who were new to town back in 2005. When my family moved into town, we knew no one and found it incredibly difficult to meet new friends. The yacht club’s origin came from a group of men, not women, with a purpose of enabling the expansion of social networks, not a reduction. It was supposed to be fun and created without malice or any intent to hurt others. Even the name was chosen as a joke and way to have fun – as the author points out, Wayland is land-locked and unable to have a fancy yacht club like towns on the north and south shore. There were never any requirements to get in. The people involved didn’t know many other people in town and felt isolated when bringing children to the playground or watching sporting events alone while their children played. There were limited social outlets in Wayland for new families and so a small group of individuals decided to host parties to meet more people. The only common thread among those who participated was that they liked to have fun and didn’t take themselves too seriously. During a two year period, people met other families from different neighborhoods, schools and sports teams and lifelong friendships were created. Sadly, the yacht club name become controversial and by putting a name on these events, rumors began to spread of an exclusive club in town which was hurting others. In 2007, when ridiculous stories were being told about the nature of the yacht club and how hurtful its “members” were for not including more people, all social events through the club ended. That was seven years ago. I don’t understand emails and comments about people still being members or how having attended parties is somehow a reflection on their character. There is no current Wayland Yacht Club. There aren’t any current members. It no longer exists except in the minds of those who continue to feel excluded for something that happened seven years ago.
    Please put this in perspective – 6th grade middle school students have graduated high school since the last time a “yacht club” party was held.

    The town of Wayland is incredibly fortunate to have strong,
    intelligent, dedicated women who give up their time for academic and athletic programs that wouldn’t exist without their efforts. Our school rankings continue to make Wayland such an attractive place to live.

    I find it interesting that when people decide to do something, to host an event, to enlist fellow citizens for a cause, to generate interest in an idea, they are often criticized by those who stand idly by. To
    Ms. Suratt’s point, she invited 85 friends to her birthday party so people wouldn’t feel left out. I wasn’t invited, but I don’t see that as a reflection on my character or self-worth. I’m proud to live in Wayland and have developed friendships that will hopefully last forever. Before bringing up old news that isn’t relevant to the environment in which we currently live, I would suggest that everyone takes a good look in the mirror and thinks about what they’ve done to invest their time and resources to build up this town up rather than tear it down.

    • Daphna

      I agree with all of your points. As a former magazine reporter, I find it editorially dubious that a 10-year-old defunct club was put in the lede of this article. The author implied WYC was old, but didn’t give details about that — just about how supposedly “hoity-toity”and exclusive it was (where are the fact-checkers?). I live in a town neighboring Wayland and I think this article does your town an injustice. Readers will remember the juicy stuff, which is anonymous and anecdotal, rather than representative of life in the suburbs. Sigh. For a GREAT, well-written personal article about another suburb, Concord, check out Sarah Payne Stuart’s piece “Pilgrim’s Progress” in the New Yorker from July 30, 2012. http://www.newyorker.com/reporting/2012/07/30/120730fa_fact_stuart. It’s only available online to NYer subcribers, but it’s worth checking out at the library.

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  • Roseana Auten

    This piece just smacks of white people problems. If you’re only looking for friends who are exactly like you, there’s always going to be war. As a former mom-friend seeker, here’s a couple tips: Find something else to do besides volunteer at your kids’ chi-chi school, shop for clothes, go to lunch, and “be fit.” And never refuse the friendship of any person who is kind to you, even if she/he isn’t your race, age, income, or education level. Your Prada flats aren’t such a big statement any more if you keep these things in mind.

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=94rcOVJBMYQ Winston Blake
    • Mithu Lahiri

      White People Problems?????? This goes on in every culture. Hate to tell you, but open your eyes and you’ll see it horridly inflated egos among (in my personal and humble observation) Indian women. BLECH!

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      really?

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    This is very, very weird. I may have brushed up against parents with motives like this, but in general my neighborhood friendships are genuine and valuable. But maybe that’s because we’re all broke.

    • Erin

      Right. These are just mean girls and girls with low self-esteem. Doesn’t matter if it’s suburban mothers, corporate CEOs or the local coffee shop baristas.

    • Guest

      You said it exactly. Our neighborhood is in a similar suburb to those described- but I haven’t personally heard of anything so negative. There have been a few women who I’ve come across who seemed to have the potential to have these tendencies, but it’s easy enough to maintain a polite but distant relationship.

      • Mithu Lahiri

        “I haven’t personally heard of anything so negative.” That’s because you “maintain a polite but distant relationship.” You answered the question yourself. This woman got too close. Sometimes you have to maintain a polite and distant relationship with everybody, if that’s what it takes.

  • Mom2KG

    Good read, well written, but here’s my take on what we read and see about parenting: http://stayathomemomdoingnothing.com/2014/03/27/should-we-care-about-the-backstabbing-suburban-mom/

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  • http://www.bowenboston.com/ Jonathan Bowen

    Why did I read this?! The author sounds like someone who is hideously lacking self-esteem. Petty, petty, petty.

  • Westoner

    So so sad, WPP

  • Yawn

    Really, this is the article folks are talking about??? Sad; trite; inconsistent. Author says “I feel lucky to have made it through my first eight years in the ’burbs unscathed”…..? Umm, ok, sure seems that way…Deride a group of friends who liked to have parties together as a hook for readers in the first paragraph and then later admit that you hosted your own 85 person birthday party? The yacht club thing was “exclusive” but your 85 person party is “inclusive” because “having this many friends probably means that I never committed to one group”… aaahhhh, it must be nice to be so popular and above reproach…Quote one woman ”Emily” who left Wayland and then cast the net to the north shore for “Melissa” and south shore for “Jennifer” to cobble this terrifying tale of woe together… castigate the “Queen bees” but be sure to later let us know that “women seek me out at parties…to whisper their stories…” I’m sure the author loathes being the center of such attention….if she’s not too ”drained” from this “winter of mean-girl antics” I hope she can find the time to pen another scintillating expose of life in the ‘burbs….perhaps she’ll put back on her
    Prada flats (wait for Spring) and batwing cashmere sweater (her words) and tackle the terrifying labyrinth of the Natick Collection for us…

  • Get some therapy

    I feel so sorry for this person who criticizes a fairly laid back town and filters her opinions in a way that the world must revolve around her. Sad she has such low self esteem . Clearly someone didn’t sit next to her in the cafeteria at grade school and the effects are lingering. who counts the # people at a birthday party as measurement of anything? somehow no matter what town this author lives in she will be tortured. get some therapy

    • Mithu Lahiri

      You were either never bullied (and therefore don’t realise that bullying starts at home, seeing stupid moms behave in the same way) or you were a bully or a bystander who still doesn’t give a flying fig leaf. Get some therapy for your own apathy.

      • Get some therapy

        Your replies to justify why you are right and everyone else who disagrees with you is wrong or is part of the problem ….. Oh wait. YOU Are bullying me!!!

        Can’t you respect commentary from others. Oh ya wait. Your still attendees at birthday parties.

        • Mithu Lahiri

          My apologies for not “respecting” commentaries which ignore the bigger problem of women (and men) who behave like this. These lousy people give birth to lousy children who learn their parents’ lousy behaviours. Then, when something serious happens at school – let’s take the legal circumstance – a bullied kid commits suicide, everyone is shocked, but no one examines their own behaviour to teach their own kids to be more compassionate.

          Oh, wait…why am I telling YOU this? You’re exactly like those high school kids who bullied me relentlessly and nearly made me kill myself…except now you’re all grown up and turning this on me when I call people like you out.

          • Get some therapy

            Really not knowing who I am or what I do you are calling me a bully? I work at non profit for a major disease related illness dedicated soley to supporting families in times of crisis. You know nothing about me or my personal attributes.

            If anything your comments reflect so poorly on you.

            If you did get bullied and did nearly kill yourself in high school. My original point is
            Made. GET THERAPY.

            Over & out. You are a sad person who needs help.

          • Mithu Lahiri

            Hilarious. I don’t care if you work at a non-profit. There are some very nice people who work at them and there are some “Stepford Wives types” who work at them too. And as for my comments reflecting poorly on me…that’s the most hilarious, because I’m speaking out for people who understand what bullying is and not trying to suppress it. In fact, I’ve helped people who have been bullied because I actually listen to them instead of trivialising their problem. Oh, and therapy is for people who actually commit the crime, not for victims who try to quash it.

          • Mithu Lahiri

            Anyway, I’m going to go help others who actually need an empathetic ear instead of trying to convince a hopeless case like yourself. BYE!

    • redsongia

      You probably need to take a trip out of your little town once in a while, since you are taking this so personally. Probably, she meant you and you know it.

  • http://batman-news.com OH PLEASE!

    I am a “metrowest” mom and YES THIS DOES GO ON…it is so ridiculous, these women need to get a life. It is not only Wayland, it is every town in that area. Most of us working, well-educated moms stay clear and laugh at all of them behind their backs!

    • M Lewis

      ‘Laugh at all of them behind their backs!”? Isn’t that essentially the same behavior you are ‘staying clear of’? That is very ironic. Stay at home mothers do work and many are well educated. Sounds like you would fit right in but I can’t tell which side you’d play with. the stabbing behind the back or the playful and accepting?

      • redsongia

        Nope, not if she laughs by herself, not with a clique.

    • Brainiac

      Awesome!!!

    • Charlotte

      oh my – it really goes on and totally agree, most of us (particularly working moms who have other ways to expend our energy..) are laughing or ROFLing!

      Actually, speaking of ‘educated’ – apparently in Dover, stay-at-home moms are ranked in the clique according to level of education – women with masters degrees are much “better”. ROLFing again..!

  • Linda MacDonald

    I think what this demonstrates is how unrealistic it is to expect that we can eradicate bullying in our schools when this behavior extends into adulthood.

    • Mithu Lahiri

      OMG! You’re the FIRST person I’ve come across who has actually mentioned the “B” word (I’m reading comments from the top, so there may be more before you who’ve mentioned it too). It seems to me that there are too many people here with the ho-hum attitude that “Mean girls exist everywhere. And that’s the way it is. get over it.” I wouldn’t be at all surprised if these comments are coming from former high school bullies / bystanders.

  • Randi

    All the author needs to do is seek out some nicer friends. It’s that simple.

    There will always be unfriendly, obnoxious people. Every town has them. They existed in high school and they exist as adults. They exist in the workplace and as stay-at-home parents. There are women AND men who have snobbish, materialistic values, but the beauty of adulthood is that you can simply choose not to socialize with that group.

    I’m a stay-at-home mom of three school aged kids and a former professional. I moved to Wayland 2 years ago and I have met some of the lovliest, most down to earth women here who’ve been so welcoming (And I’ve never noticed what kind of shoes they wear…). All you have to do is walk away from the group you find unpleasant and say hello to someone else–see how that goes… Trust me, there are hundreds and hundreds of stay-at-home moms in Wayland who are not as you describe. I’ve met interesting, funny, smart, charming, generous, and warm people here. Just look around a little more.

    I moved here from the suburbs of NYC. You have no idea what cliquishness and materialism can really look like. It’s so much more pervasive there (in work and at home). But even there, I was able to find many, many women who were supportive and open and fun and welcoming, and I made some life-long friends. Just look a little further.

    You don’t have to buy in to the status thing if you don’t want to. Right now, you’re CHOOSING to play these games. You don’t have to do that. You’re a grown-up now and all you have to do is look for some friends whom you genuinely like and who genuinely like you. Why would even be trying to be friends with adults who behave this way?

    I’m a suburban mom, in Wayland, who has a wonderful (not at miserable) life and would never choose “backstabbing,” “nasty” friends, and you don’t have to either.

    • Mithu Lahiri

      Yes I agree, the author needs some genuinely nice friends. Unfortunately, her children may not have such an outlet at school if and when they’re bullied by the children of these mean moms. The angle that I’m coming from is: Saying that there are mean people everywhere doesn’t do anything to solve the problem; ignoring it / brushing it off only adds to it.

  • Christopher M

    While this may seem like an important topic to suburban stay-at-home mothers, to the rest of the world you sound like whining 13 year old girls. It’s time to grow up and find something more productive to do with your lives.

    • Mithu Lahiri

      Actually, under the guise of Range Rovers and dinner parties, it illustrates exactly what goes on in schools and has always gone on in schools everywhere. If you don’t think that these women are responsible for raising bullies, then you need to read this article a little less myopically.

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  • Jessica Xu

    I think this can happen anywhere, whether Wayland or Boston. It is just some women who don’t have anything better to do other than being nasty. If I ever move to the suburbs, I could care less not being able to fit in or not being invited to some parties. These are stupid and shallow parties, anyway, just some venues for these women to show off.

  • hester prynne

    My husband abandoned me and our 8-month old son to live with his pregnant girlfriend. I raised my son alone, in rental housing, in public schools, took the night shift at my newspaper job so I could coach his little league team,and never drove a car that was less than 10 years old. This article seems like a Cinderella story to me…written by a misogynist.

  • llgertz

    Lost souls, and I mean all of them. I suddenly feel very evolved.

  • Brenda C

    I think this article says a lot more about the people who would want to engage with groups like this than it does about the members. Women need to look *within* to define their sense of self rather then allow external factors to define it for them. I don’t like to say they got what they asked for but……well, if you lay down with bitches, you are likely to get up with fleas.

    • Mithu Lahiri

      Well, at least they had the good fortune of leaving (or being booted out); this way their kids might not continue the vicious cycle.

    • lastinrow

      well said.

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  • Leilani

    Are you kidding me? With all the mothers in the world who have to deal with starvation, lack of access to water, healthcare, and sanitation, this author is worried about these immature idiots? Grow up!!! Get some perspective!

    • Mithu Lahiri

      Yes, yes…starvation, lack of water, etc. These are all noble things to think about. But we tend to think about problems that seemingly have earth-shattering consequences MORE when we don’t want to admit that there are problems that we can solve amongst ourselves. Let’s fix these first or at least, at the same time.

      So, let me ask you a few questions: Do you think bullying is a problem in schools? Do you think kids should commit suicide or kill others out of feeling miserable about themselves because some lousy brat told them that they’re fat or ugly or stupid? Where do you think it starts, if not with parents who behave the same way with others?

      • mj

        So well said Mithu! Let’s be friends:)

  • Wayland1

    Really classy to write such a spiteful and catty article about a town that has faced a heinous amount of tragedy in the last few years – a town that, by the way, displayed an extraordinary level of resilience and strength in the face of this adversity. I am proud to have grown up in Wayland, and find this vitriolic article extremely pathetic.

  • ThereelPatriot

    Another pathetic attempt by the Globe to diss the suburbs as full of bossy conservative women and compete against them with women who live in the city and swear and have an “edge”. I have seen these kinds of Liberal class warfare pieces for years at the Globe.

    • spete85

      Can you read? Boston Magazine is not affiliated with the Globe….

      • ThereelPatriot

        Thanks. Does it really matter? Same liberal drivel….of course you can’t rebut my statement, just point out a mistake. Must be an editor at the Globe

        • spete85

          No, not a Globe editor, or a suburban or city mother here. I don’t feel strongly about your comment one way or the other, so I don’t have a rebuttal for you. Although you might find someone who did if you tried for accuracy.

  • Waylandfaithful

    I bet you are one of the mom’s that has a slow sign on a dead end street. Maybe no one likes you and just doesnt invite you to their parties. So what do you do about it, write an article that tries to bash the close knit community. Just move if you dont like it..

    • ACME

      Settle down, Sally! You kind of just proved her point.

    • Charlotte

      Please learn to punctuate properly.

  • Brainiac

    Look at all of the mean and spiteful comments from Wayland and beyond……. especially the last one “Maybe no one likes you” OMG people are so big behind an anonymous keyboard………looks like the author hit the nail on the head……Great article about an age old problem, bottom line, be proud of who you are, hold your head high and rejoice in you and your family!

  • Charlotte

    What about the supposed swingers parties out in metrowest? Sounds a lot more interesting to me!!

    • mj

      LOL please tell me more?! That does sound so much more interesting;)

  • MfCohen

    she sounds like she was more interested in friends than raising her kids. i’m not sure why she is suggesting it’s staying at home to raise children that makes these women like that. my guess is they’d be that way in the office too. stop blaming your kid.

  • Diane

    I am a mom who lives in Wayland, and have NOT had an experience or heard of another mom having one remotely close to what you describe in my town. This article seems to project onto the masses the experiences of the few (and clearly bored) for the sake of her subject matter.

  • stevie

    As a person who grew up in Wayland this article does not surprise nor shock me. When I started a family I moved to a surrounding town because despite their good school system I did not want to subject my children to the “more money your parents have the more popular you are” mentality I suffered through as a child. We still frequent Wayland playgrounds, beach and other establishments and even now thirty plus years later the self importance seething out of a lot of Wayland-ites is palpable.

  • Waylander

    Yes, it’s true. This really exists in Wayland. Sad, but true. Yes, it’s a first world problem, and yes we should be embarrassed and ashamed about it, but it does indeed exist here. To those who live here and have never seen it, rest assured, you are better off. And there are much nicer friends to be made than these mean girls. It goes beyond the normal high school popular girl type cliques that 30 and 40 year old women are participating in. It extends in to voting, where if you put the wrong local candidate’s lawn sign out or if you are supporting an article at the Annual Town Meeting, you do so at the risk of being ostracized by your “friends”. It used to be worse before we had electronic voting when those involved in the local group called SOS (which rather than Saving Our Services, actually tore the town apart in a big way), would actually stand guard over whatever their favorite issue was and take note of anyone who dared to have an original thought and vote differently than SOS told them they should. Anyone not onboard was immediately ostracized. Many long-time friendships came to an end on the town meeting floor. So, for as silly as this “mean girl” thing sounds, it can have serious consequences when these grown women act like they’re still in their high school clique. Very sad.

    • Mithu Lahiri

      It isn’t just a 1st world problem. My parents are from India (though they live in a Boston suburb) and I’ve seen it here AND there. Nasty women will be nasty women. The most awful things are said about the woman / mom they want to ostracise! What are they teaching their children? I worry about the kids the most, since they’re being raised to do the same when they’re older (if they’re not ALREADY doing it to some poor girl or boy at school – and come home looking like little angels). Bullies are born at home and are raised in the playground / classroom.

    • hJs

      I think facebook and social networking is partly to blame for the high school mentality that people have in their 30’s and 40’s.

  • palestinian atheist

    Very good article. Kept me entertained.

    That said, this goes on in EVERY class. Low income people have this same issue. I know because when I was younger I had gotten off to a rocky start and had to live in public housing. Let’s just suffice it to say, if you’re not in, you’re a target and that’s what I was. I refused to be around them, and they singled me out for it. Funny thing is, the more they taunted me, the stronger I got. Now I just stay to myself. I’m not into hierarchies or high-school shenanigans. Either bring something to the table or GTFO of my face. Drama is for kindergarteners.

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  • twinkiethekid

    You lost me at ‘putting my Bugaboo in my Honda Pilot……My WPP radar started blaring.

  • Sock ThePuppet

    I was raised in Wayland and have lived here for most of my life. I can honestly tell you that most of this article is accurate, except of course for the part about the town being landlocked. (We have a large lake and several smaller ponds..) As I explain to new arrivals, there are two kinds of people in this town..those who have money, and those who desperately want you to believe they have money. More often than not, it is the have-nots with their raging inferiority complexes who behave in the manner described here. Although I grew up in a nice neighborhood and lived in a home that today would easily sell in excess of 500K, today I live in a slightly less appealing two family located only a couple of hundred yards from where the home where I grew up. Many of my neighbors are like the people described in this article, (One recently implied that I would be much happier if I moved into public housing with others like myself.) Living in Wayland is all about putting on a show. It’s about leasing a Lincoln Navigator when you can barely afford the payments on your Honda. And most importantly, it’s about ostracizing anyone and everyone who reminds you of how mediocre you really are.

    • Waylander

      I also live in Wayland, and I agree with much of what you say. However, I don’t find that it is mostly the (relative) have-nots that behave this way. A lot do, of course. Some seem to have an inferiority complex that has them convinced that if they just hang around the rich folks long enough, people will like them more. Or maybe some of their money will fall out of the wallets of the rich folks and into their own. It’s really kind of pathetic. But I also see as many or more of the ultra rich folks in town who own multi-million dollar homes with lots of horses being just as mean, just as wannabe as those of more modest means. Again, it’s pretty pathetic to see. With everything they’ve got, they still feel the need to be mean to others in order to make themselves feel better about themselves. But the good news is that these women (and some men) are the minority in town. Most folks here are very nice people and don’t get caught up in all that silly high school clique behavior.

  • deeeeeeeeeeeeez

    Ugh, white women.

  • Mithu Lahiri

    Thank you, Julie Suratt, for writing this article! There are at least a few of us who have read it and understand it as a warning for what happens to the school bullies and their clique. THEY DO NOT CHANGE. Instead they look for “grown-up” ways to “maintain this status quo” and do it through their kids, husband’s (or their own) money, etc. i grew up in a suburb south of Boston and still remember the torment I went through starting in elementary school all the way through my senior year in high school. YES. 12 years. I’m not exaggerating, since I can rattle off several incidents of kids being cruel in all 3 school stages (primary, middle and high) and I remember their names too and the teachers / school officials who supported these brats. I can assure you that these girls grew up to be the same type of women I read about in this article. They’re still snippy and mean-spirited and love to gossip about everyone as long as they’re not the one being talked about. I have been so scarred by these events that 1) I tend not to trust new people very easily (especially the ones who seem clique-y) 2) I have lost all desire to want to fit in even remotely with people. I just don’t care what they think of me anymore. In fact, I sometimes say and do things that polarise me – of course I believe in what I say and do – but it’s not lost on me that I ostracise myself by doing / saying these things and I just don’t care.

  • Ozzie

    Last night, my 5th grade daughter came home upset about some “girl drama” that was going on at school. As she and I discussed this over dinner, it dawned on me that some of the behavior of adults in this
    article was the same as that being played out by her 11-year-old classmates. In fact, I pulled out the article and read her
    some excerpts.

    This type of behavior – cliques, exclusion, backstabbing, bullying – knows no age, ethnicity, or economic status. It happens in Wayland and the South Bronx, America and Azerbaijan. Does that excuse it? Absolutely not. But solving it is an age-old dilemma.
    I felt somewhat helpless as I tried to soothe my daughter by imparting
    some wisdom – avoid people that make you unhappy, stay above the fray, be yourself, know that this happens everywhere – perhaps because I’m well aware that, like most advice we give our kids, it’s easier said than done.

    • Mithu Lahiri

      Tell your daughter to be proud of herself and not give a darned what those brats say. It’s hard when you’re in school (though it isn’t any easier for many adults) when all you want to do is fit in. Tell her to be the best possible version of herself (because THAT is the BEST revenge) and if, she sees someone going through the same thing, not to be a bystander, but to stand up for whoever is being bullied. That’s the only way the bullies & the bystanders will start to be the minorities; they need to be “weeded out.”

      • hJs

        I agree. I think all you can do is try with people, and if they don’t respond, so be it. Don’t isolate yourself socially all together because many are purposefully hard on each other in social circles. Also, if parents don’t want to correct the behavior in their children when they are ostracizing a particular child, that is on them. You can explain to your child that he or she is only responsible for his or her own behavior, and that she should be genuine even if he or she is the only one.

    • Mailisha Chesney

      My sympathies! 5th grade is notorious for this kind of thing with girls. I don’t exactly know what to do about this, but… The more “girl power” teaching and propping up of girls in general seems like an excellent place to start.

  • MAgirl

    My husband and I are looking to move back to Massachusetts. I grew up in Concord, which I liked but I’ve heard has changed a bit toward this kind of environment–still, probably less snobbish/more intellectual than other towns (?) My real question is this: Are there any towns in the suburbs of Boston with good schools and yards/woods, but some activity/social life in which the female circles aren’t defined by this kind of girlish foolishness? Perhaps a tall order.

    • Lisa Richtman

      Hello! I grew up in Winchester and moved back here ten years ago with my own family. These type of cliques exist here but I have never been caught up in this. I have make wonderful friends here, and have been so happy with my kids’ school.

      • Black Bart

        I grew up in Winchester too. All this foolishness and more abounded when I was a kid. It still does. I think that people who dont grow up with these ultra forceful borderline masculine always pissed off angry yet deeply adolescent suv driving take johnny to lacrosse practice boron and Prada soccer mom types are sort of mystified by their seemingly all powerful nature. However the bitch…..err…. beast can be combatted. Just throw in your ear buds and go do something that doesnt cost $1000 an hour to do and her and her snot nosed know nothing douchebag evil impish little sacks of hamster shit she calls children wont be within a 50 mile radius.

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    • lastinrow

      newton, brookline, boston, cambridge, dorchester. Find a town with a good ratio of working to non working moms and ethnic diversity. The indian stay at home mom, cuban neurosurgeon and attorney who grew up in wellesley at my son’s soccer games discuss world events, hot dads, and good movies rather than how many bedrooms their friend’s LC estate boasts.

    • redsongia

      I’ve heard Melrose has nice schools and is a relatively short ride on the commuter rail to DT Boston.

  • Michael Lowery

    Sweetie, you clearly picked the wrong end of town! Come down to Dudley Pond, enjoy the water and a diversity of affluent & not-so, old & young families.

    Walk down Lakeshore drive (dodge the potholes) its lovely. Or meet the neighbors mid-pond for some fun: https://plus.google.com/photos/104490350709760837136/albums/5905434240671624561?banner=pwa&authkey=CMTGt_S6yfvKswE

    Join up and help the Dudley Pond Association: http://www.dudleypond.org/ Buy a t-shirt, help with the annual run or the ice cream social. We need some help with the newsletter…

    Ease up, walk the dog & meet a bunch of young familes all around the pond. Kick back with a beer at the Chat: http://www.yelp.com/biz/the-dudley-chateau-wayland

    Town government has volunteer opportunities for the civic-minded – I make new friends fighting with baguettes in the parking lot over health policy issues

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  • Wayland 12

    The funny thing is that Julie Surratt is one of the most aloof people I’ve met in Wayland, and the exact person I think of as a snob. Wayland women I am friends with are down to earth, nice, friendly people, and they are genuine. Julie is artificial and downright rude. It’s a fun topic, but people in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones.

    • Wayland99

      But it’s ok to anonymously attack someone personally? Queen bee (and your 7 followers), you’re proving her point!!

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  • guest

    Another reason why I am happy to live in Northern Virginia where the population is so diverse and many people are new to the area so most are welcoming. Everyone is in the same boat trying to meet people to socialize with. I grew up in MA, and I think many people stay fairly local so when they are adults there is no reason to meet people beyond their already established friend and family group. That’s just been my experience anyway.

    • Wayland99

      There is a weird dominance of townies here.

    • R S

      This is so true. As a relative newcomer to MA, I find that people have not been nearly welcoming here as in other places I’ve lived.

      • hJs

        Its everywhere now in my opinion, It may or may not be apparent at first, but it becomes apparent soon enough. Its a generational problem. People, esp, from my grandparents’ generation, were not as hard on others, and sort of took people more where they were at. I think that there was more of a recognition that everyone was dealing with life, and that we should try to make things easier on people. This is not to say that people were better back then. People still continue to do the same things that they always have because of sin. People are helpless and hopeless without God.

    • hJs

      I am from MA too, and have lived half my life in VA. Everyone is rude and cruel in their own way despite geographical location. It really is our generation the-40 something year olds and below. We are very narcissistic, and uncaring towards others.. To me, being in a place where there are activities is the most important to me and my family. Forget trying socially with many women these days-it is so draining:} I shouldn’t say that. Its even bad at church, which I don’t get. People who really take the bible seriously don’t act hurtfully towards others on a consistent basis. You have to be content being by yourself and pray that a couple of friends who aren’t backstabbers will come into your life, who have your back.

      • R S

        I highly disagree with your comment about “People who really take the bible seriously don’t act hurtfully towards others on a consistent basis.” In my experience, people who take the bible seriously are sometimes the most hypocritical and judgmental, NOT practicing what is preached on Sundays. Again, that’s been my experience. I don’t go to church and I am nice and welcoming to others.

        • hJs

          I do agree with you in that you can be nice and welcoming to others even if you are not a Christian. Since we are all human, we are fallen, and make mistakes, and being mean consistently is a constant, purposeful decision. Also, just because you go to church doesn’t make you a Christian. I have grown up in New England and have lived half of my life in the south :( and there is not a whole lot of genuineness in people, let alone church folk. I just know that it is rare to find people who take the bible seriously and really love God. If they did, they would be different people-not because of their own efforts, but because of God living and working in them. I understand that you may not agree with me, and we all have a right to our own thoughts. Yes, a lot of people at church don’t practice what they preach and it takes everything within me to go to church on sundays, but I go to worship God despite the people. Though you can worship God anywhere.

  • guest

    I teach elementary, and have throughout the country (private schools in major cities and public in the suburbs). I found this article because I was researching a speculation that bullying in schools is most prevalent in communities with lots of stay-at-home moms. I am not saying in any way there is a direct correlation within a family, simply that if the majority of moms are modeling a focus on their social lives, it’s inevitable this will be reflected in their children at large. Reading your article makes me wonder if it is especially true in communities where there are pronounced social hierarchies among the parents.

    • hJs

      Children do copy their caregivers’ behaviors, and if you wonder why a child acts cruelly to another child or ignores another child, look no further than the parents!!

  • Gladys Cupcake

    There are some really great comments on this article – the good and the bad ones equally. It’s great to read something to illicit this much of a response. I am from Wellesley and moved out at the end of high school along with my parents, shortly thereafter. They never fit in with the country club bunch and I promised myself I would never move to the suburbs ever again. I haven’t been back since and it’s been 15 years. Now of course I have 2 kids and live in the city and dream of a day where I can come home at night and park in my driveway and not step on dog shit that some entitled 27 year old girl didn’t feel like picking up. I’ve seen both sides of parenting: the “New Moms Club” type and the “I hate moms clubs” type. And I have come to this conclusion: Both are women trying to make it in this world by either working or being a stay at home mom and they all have to manage a house, kids, maybe a husband, a divorce, or a wife, and they pay bills and no matter who you are there is never enough time to get it all done. The only thing we can collectively do as parents is teach our kids the #1 rule, which is the only rule I remember to tell my kid every day before school: If you see someone sitting alone, your job is to go over and play with them. Does your kid have to like everyone they meet? Absolutely not. And when they get old enough to make their own decisions at least they have some sort of basis of human decency to rely upon before they make a bad decision. And yes, you as the parent are who they aspire to become, so if you want to act entitled and rude and exclusive, your kid will be that much worse. Women are their own worst enemy – though I grew up in a ‘girls rule’ household I can recognize that girls can also sometimes really goddamn suck.

  • Lisa Murakami

    I’m a SAHM in Boston suburb (Arlington) and I have to say, I could not care less what people think about me or who I fit in with. Frankly, if I were going to kow-tow to the social elitism among my highly-educated peers, I’d still be practicing law, dressing in my fancy suits, and going out to lunch every day with other snarky adult friends.

    I do think one important step in ending the Mommy Wars is to get rid of the gender-specific acronym “SAHM.” I prefer “at-home parent” for all the reasons discussed here:

    http://bostonwed-murakami.blogspot.com/2013/12/the-sahm-time-for-upgrade.html

    • Black Bart

      You had me up until you had to go all ultra-PC and say “stay at home parent”. You’re a mom. Its what you are. Just like a janitor is a janitor and not a maintenance specialist or my true favorite….custodial engineer.

      • Lisa Murakami

        You must not have read the blog entry I linked to above.

    • GreenLantern

      Yes when its seen as less of a woman thing women wont target each other for it as much.

  • photogirl

    I find this whole discussion incredibly pathetic and frankly, most of the women too. Aren’t there more important things to think and care about? Mean mommies, wannabees, minions, or however else you’re classified, it really is time to move on from all this crap. You’ll feel better.

    • http://www.momandthepoplife.com Christine Rap

      agreed…and yet you and I clicked on the link to read an article about ‘Backstabbing Moms’. I did find the article excellently written and I have experienced some of the leaving out of events. I am not immature. I don’t have to be invited to every party. I don’t really care about social climbing. If I did, I would be invited to them. All of my energies are put into my family and things that matter.

  • Daniela

    For the love of God…no wonder I prefer my own company to that of a bunch of women…ugh!

  • disqus_stcd1guzy3

    too many airhead women who either a) never graduated emotionally from high school, b) think their lives should be like some stupid night time soap/drama or c) both.

    Thank God, I married an intelligent and emotinally adult woman

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    if you need a right place to solve your problems
    contact DR Ofemospelltemple@gmail.com is the right choice. he is a great man that have been casting spells with years of experience, he cast spells for different purposes like:

    (1)If you want your ex back.
    (2) if you always have bad dreams.
    (3)You want to be promoted in your office.
    (4)You want women/ men to run after you.
    (5)If you want a child.
    (6)[You want to be rich.
    (7)You want to tie your husband/wife to be yours
    forever.
    (8)If you need financial assistance.
    (9)Herbal care

    Contact him today on: drofemospelltemple@gmail.com or you can contact him through his website on http://drofemospelltemple.webs.com/

  • Emiliano Babarah

    Oh my God, I’m so glad to tell everyone the real thing that happen to me…My name is EMILIANO BABARAH. If i refuse to share this testimony it means i am selfish to my self and to people i love so much whom might have similar problems, March 16th about something 7:23pm after taken our dinner my husband got crazy started calling a lady name Melisa I love you, i was so mad and started crying like a baby…then my husband left home for the idiot called Melisa, and never return back home then i believed when he uthen nderstand his self he will surly come back to apology, but instead he left me So i complained to my friend she told me she was having such problems in her marriage until she was introduce to DR ORIOMON who specializes in bringing back broken homes and broken marriages DR ORIOMON cast a spell for me in May 4th surprisingly my husband came home May 6th apologizing that i should forgive him that it will never happen again, i was so glad and gave the thanks to DR ORIOMON who save my marriage, if you are having similar problem you can contact him and His email address is (oriomonspiritualtemple@yahoo.com) you can still save your marriage if u really love your husband.

    Thanks EMILIANO BABARAH_USA\\

  • Frank Marian Frank Marian

    Great Thanks to Dr Ofemo for helping me when i needed help.
    My name is frank Marian from USA I never
    believe in love spells until I experience Dr.
    DR Ofemo temple, and after he cast a love spell for me
    my Ex called me to apologize for the pain that she has
    caused me and till today we are living a happy family,
    if you need a right place to solve your problems
    contact DR Ofemospelltemple@gmail.com is the right choice. he is a great man that have been casting spells with years of experience, he cast spells for different purposes like:

    (1)If you want your ex back.
    (2) if you always have bad dreams.
    (3)You want to be promoted in your office.
    (4)You want women/ men to run after you.
    (5)If you want a child.
    (6)[You want to be rich.
    (7)You want to tie your husband/wife to be yours
    forever.
    (8)If you need financial assistance.
    (9)Herbal care

    Contact him today on: drofemospelltemple@gmail.com

  • kate lam

    Hello, My name is kate lam, I live in South Carolina, USA,
    I recently had a breakup with my husband about 2
    months back. He said we are done that we should move on that he has
    someone else now. I could not even bear the pain and everything and
    just so unfortunate, I discovered I was pregnant when me and my ex we
    going through some big fights. I couldn’t tell him I was pregnant
    because I knew he would blame it on me. I suffered with the secret on
    my own and I could not go through an abortion on my own. The funny
    thing is I discovered that he had two other girlfriends I was not
    aware of. I know if I could turn back the hands of time I would do it
    again because i could not suffer everything alone, I almost drop out
    of univesity because of a guy. On a faithful day after i lost of
    thought, an old friend told me about a spellcaster with this email
    dremuahelphome@outlook.com who could help me restore my love and
    have my baby in good terms. I sacrifice everything to make sure the
    spell was done. and the spell was now the savior. He spell brought
    back my lover after 2 days. My joy, love and happiness is restored
    because of this spell professor, my baby comes soon.
    you can also contact him if you have any of this problems below
    (1) Spell for protection from danger
    (2) Spell for magic
    (3) Spell for same sex love
    (4) Spell for healing
    (5) Spell for invisibility
    (6) Spell for riches and fame
    (7) Spell to get a good job
    (8) Spell for strong love and relationship
    (9) Spell to bring your ex back
    (10) Spell for promotion at work

    This man has great powers and is incredibly
    generous.You can contact his on
    dremuahelphome@outlook.com He can help you without
    stress try him today….

  • Rebecca

    I recently moved to MA and into a suburb northwest of Boston. My husband received a job offer that would allow me to stay home with our two little ones. I quit my job and we moved from one coast to another. I have been so frustrated with trying to make friends and this article hits home. I feel like I am back in junior high and I am not willing to repeat that nonsense.

  • Chloe Ryan

    I have been in great bondage for almost 6 months suffering in the hands of a cheating husband,we were happy and leaving well until he meant his old time gilr friend and he started dating her outside our marriage before you knew it he stopped caring and taking care of his own family it was to the extent that now he was planning to get married to her and divorce me his own wife, i have cried and reported him to his family but he never listened to any one but to cut my story short i came in search for a real spell caster who could destroy their relationship and make him come back me and our 2 kids on my search i saw people making testimony on how their marriage where restored by Dr Saibaba i pick his email and i narrated my story to him and he agreed to help me and after performing a spell on the third day they both had a quarrel with his girlfriend and he came home begging for i and my little kids to forgive him that his eyes are clear now that he will never do any thing that will hurt his family again and promise to be a caring father and never cheat again.I am so so happy that i did not loose him to the girl all appreciation goes to Dr Saibaba for you are a great spell caster and to whom this may concern if you have a cheating husband or wife you can as well email him on templesaibaba@yahoo.com

  • caston

    i am caston by name. Greetings to every one that is reading this testimony. I have been rejected by my husband after six(6) years of marriage just because another woman had a spell on him and he left me and the kid to suffer. one day when I was reading through the web, I saw a post on how this spell caster on this have help a woman to get back her husband and I gave him a reply to his address and he told me that a woman had a spell on my husband and he told me that he will help me and after 3 days that I will have my husband back. I believed him and today I am glad to let you all know that this spell caster have the power to bring lovers back. because I am now happy with my husband. Thanks for any one that may need His help here is the email address trustspelltemple4@gmail.com Dr AGBER OR CALL HI ON HIS MOBILE NUMBER +2348100515075

  • caston

    i am caston by name. Greetings to every one that is reading this testimony. I have been rejected by my husband after six(6) years of marriage just because another woman had a spell on him and he left me and the kid to suffer. one day when I was reading through the web, I saw a post on how this spell caster on this have help a woman to get back her husband and I gave him a reply to his address and he told me that a woman had a spell on my husband and he told me that he will help me and after 3 days that I will have my husband back. I believed him and today I am glad to let you all know that this spell caster have the power to bring lovers back. because I am now happy with my husband. Thanks for any one that may need His help here is the email address trustspelltemple4@gmail.com Dr AGBER OR CALL HI ON HIS MOBILE NUMBER +2348100515075.

  • Andrew Mark

    “my name is Hussein from USA, i want to use this opportunity to thank a great spell caster who helped me to bring back my ex lover after she has end up the relationship for four years now. naturally i don’t believe in any spell caster,cus there are a lot of scams but i run to him as directed by a friend of mine,when i told him he helped me and in two days my ex is back to me and it was real and i was really surprised…. for the solution to your problem in your relationship, u can kindly contact him at this email address: agagulovespell@gmail.com or agagulovespell@yahoo.com My Regards…..”

  • Andrew Mark

    BE CAREFUL HERE NOBODY CAN HELP YOU HERE OR EVEN SUGGEST HOW YOU CAN GET YOUR EX OR LOVE BACK,ANY TESTIMONIES OF MOST SPELL CASTER HERE MUST BE IGNORE.BECAUSE MOST OF THEM ARE SCAM I MEAN REAL SCAM WHICH I WAS A VICTIM AND I GOT RIPPED OF THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS BECAUSE I WAS SO ANXIOUS TO GET MY WIFE BACK AFTER SHE LEFT ME FOR OVER 2 YEARS WITH MY 7 YEARS OLD SON JERRY,I HAVE APPLIED TO 7 DIFFERENT SPELL CASTER HERE AND ALL TO NO AVAIL THEY ALL ASK FOR SAME THING SEND YOUR NAME YOUR EX NAME ADDRESS AND PICTURE PHONE NUMBER ETC WHICH I DID OVER AND OVER AGAIN AND MOST OF THEM WERE FROM WEST AFRICA UNTIL I SAW A POST ABOUT Henry olu SPELL AND I DECIDED TO GAVE HER MY LAST TRAIL.SHE ASK ME FOUR THINGS MY REAL NAME,MY EX AND MY EX MOTHER NAME AND $250 AND SAID MY EX WILL COME BACK IN 24HOURS, I HAVE PAID OVER $3000 ON SPELL CASTING AND COURIER AND NOTHING HAVE WORK FOR ME AFTER 3 DAYS I WAS THINKING ABOUT HOW MUCH I HAVE LOST SO FAR SO I SAID LET ME GIVE HER A TRY SO I CALLED HER AGAIN AND SEND MY REAL NAME,MY EX AND MY EX MOTHER NAME AND THE $250 BECAUSE I SWEAR IT WAS MY LAST TRY SO I WAS WAITING AS SHE TOLD ME TO WAIT TILL NEXT DAY AND I COULD NOT SLEEP THAT NIGHT BECAUSE I REALLY LOVE MY WIFE AND WANT HER BACK AT 9PM THAT DAY I SAW MY WIFE ON LINE ON FACE BOOK AND SHE SAID HI AT FIRST I WAS SHOCK BECAUSE SHE NEVER TALK WITH ME FOR THE PAST A YEAR AND 9 MONTH NOW I DID NOT REPLY AGAIN SHE SAID ARE YOU THERE? I QUICKLY REPLY YES AND SHE SAID CAN WE SEE TOMORROW I SAID YES AND SHE WENT OFF-LINE I WAS CONFUSED I TRY TO CHAT HER AGAIN BUT SHE WAS NO MORE ON LINE I COULD NOT SLEEP THAT NIGHT AS I WAS WONDERING WHAT SHE IS GOING TO SAY, BY 7.AM THE NEXT MORNING SHE GAVE ME A MISS CALL I DECIDED NOT TO CALL BACK AS I WAS STILL ON SHOCK AGAIN SHE CALL AND I PICK SHE SAID CAN WE SEE AFTER WORK TODAY I SAID YES SO SHE END THE CALL IMMEDIATELY I GOT OFF WORK SHE CALL ME AND WE MEET AND NOW WE ARE BACK AGAIN I CALL Henry olu THE NEXT DAY THANKING HER FOR WHAT SHE HAS DONE IN FACT I STILL CALL HER AND THANK HER AS MY LIFE WAS NOT COMPLETE WITHOUT MY WIFE PLEASE BE CAREFUL HERE I HAVE BEEN SCAM THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS IF YOU WANT A TRUE LOVE SPELL THEN CONTACT Henry olu (agagulovespell@gmail.com) or agagulovespell@yahoo.com

  • Andrew Mark

    BE CAREFUL HERE NOBODY CAN HELP YOU HERE OR EVEN SUGGEST HOW YOU CAN GET YOUR EX OR LOVE BACK,ANY TESTIMONIES OF MOST SPELL CASTER HERE MUST BE IGNORE.BECAUSE MOST OF THEM ARE SCAM I MEAN REAL SCAM WHICH I WAS A VICTIM AND I GOT RIPPED OF THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS BECAUSE I WAS SO ANXIOUS TO GET MY WIFE BACK AFTER SHE LEFT ME FOR OVER 2 YEARS WITH MY 7 YEARS OLD SON JERRY,I HAVE APPLIED TO 7 DIFFERENT SPELL CASTER HERE AND ALL TO NO AVAIL THEY ALL ASK FOR SAME THING SEND YOUR NAME YOUR EX NAME ADDRESS AND PICTURE PHONE NUMBER ETC WHICH I DID OVER AND OVER AGAIN AND MOST OF THEM WERE FROM WEST AFRICA UNTIL I SAW A POST ABOUT Henry olu SPELL AND I DECIDED TO GAVE HER MY LAST TRAIL.SHE ASK ME FOUR THINGS MY REAL NAME,MY EX AND MY EX MOTHER NAME AND $250 AND SAID MY EX WILL COME BACK IN 24HOURS, I HAVE PAID OVER $3000 ON SPELL CASTING AND COURIER AND NOTHING HAVE WORK FOR ME AFTER 3 DAYS I WAS THINKING ABOUT HOW MUCH I HAVE LOST SO FAR SO I SAID LET ME GIVE HER A TRY SO I CALLED HER AGAIN AND SEND MY REAL NAME,MY EX AND MY EX MOTHER NAME AND THE $250 BECAUSE I SWEAR IT WAS MY LAST TRY SO I WAS WAITING AS SHE TOLD ME TO WAIT TILL NEXT DAY AND I COULD NOT SLEEP THAT NIGHT BECAUSE I REALLY LOVE MY WIFE AND WANT HER BACK AT 9PM THAT DAY I SAW MY WIFE ON LINE ON FACE BOOK AND SHE SAID HI AT FIRST I WAS SHOCK BECAUSE SHE NEVER TALK WITH ME FOR THE PAST A YEAR AND 9 MONTH NOW I DID NOT REPLY AGAIN SHE SAID ARE YOU THERE? I QUICKLY REPLY YES AND SHE SAID CAN WE SEE TOMORROW I SAID YES AND SHE WENT OFF-LINE I WAS CONFUSED I TRY TO CHAT HER AGAIN BUT SHE WAS NO MORE ON LINE I COULD NOT SLEEP THAT NIGHT AS I WAS WONDERING WHAT SHE IS GOING TO SAY, BY 7.AM THE NEXT MORNING SHE GAVE ME A MISS CALL I DECIDED NOT TO CALL BACK AS I WAS STILL ON SHOCK AGAIN SHE CALL AND I PICK SHE SAID CAN WE SEE AFTER WORK TODAY I SAID YES SO SHE END THE CALL IMMEDIATELY I GOT OFF WORK SHE CALL ME AND WE MEET AND NOW WE ARE BACK AGAIN I CALL Henry olu THE NEXT DAY THANKING HER FOR WHAT SHE HAS DONE IN FACT I STILL CALL HER AND THANK HER AS MY LIFE WAS NOT COMPLETE WITHOUT MY WIFE PLEASE BE CAREFUL HERE I HAVE BEEN SCAM THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS IF YOU WANT A TRUE LOVE SPELL THEN CONTACT Henry olu (agagulovespell@gmail.com) or agagulovespell@yahoo.com

  • Andrew Mark

    “my name is Hussein from USA, i want to use this opportunity to thank a great spell caster who helped me to bring back my ex lover after she has end up the relationship for four years now. naturally i don’t believe in any spell caster,cus there are a lot of scams but i run to him as directed by a friend of mine,when i told him he helped me and in two days my ex is back to me and it was real and i was really surprised…. for the solution to your problem in your relationship, u can kindly contact him at this email address: agagulovespell@gmail.com or agagulovespell@yahoo.com My Regards…..”

  • Brown Emma

    My name is emma brown, i want to use this medium to testify of how i got back my boyfriend after 8months of seperation, I and my boyfriend broke up on the 12th of August because he felt i was cheating on him with a male friend of mine, i tried all i could to explain to him but he paid deaf ears, i was emotionally devastated because i really did love him until i saw a post on the internet about a spell caster, who helps people gain back their lost love, at first i doubted if it was real because i never believed in spells but decided to give it a try, when i contacted this spell caster, he helped me cast a re-union spell and i got back my boyfriend within 48hours (2days). Contact this great spell caster for your relationship or marriage problems via email dradelabispelltemple@gmail.com….
    if you are out there passing through any of
    this problems listed below:

    1) If you want your ex back.
    (2) if you always have bad dreams.
    (3) You want to be promoted in your office.
    (4) You want women/men to run after you.

  • Bekar Joe

    Hi My name is “BEKAR JOE” just want to share my experience with the world on how i got my love back and saved my marriage.because i really love SONNIA so much that i can not even do without. I was married for 15years with lilian and 2kids and we lived happily until things started getting ugly and we had fights and arguments almost every time… it got worse at a point that she filed for divorce… I tried my best to make her change her mind & stay with me cause i loved her with all my heart and didn’t want to loose her but everything just didn’t work out… she moved out of the house and still went ahead to file for divorce… I pleaded and tried everything but still nothing worked. The breakthrough came when someone introduced me to this wonderful, great spell caster who eventually helped me out… I have never been a fan of things like this but just decided to try reluctantly cause I was desperate and left with no choice… He did special prayers and used roots and herbs… Within 7 days she called me and was sorry for all the emotional trauma she had cost me, moved back to the house and we continue to live happily, the kids are happy with us. I have introduced him to a lot of couples with problems across the world and they have had good news… Just thought I should share my experience cause I strongly believe someone out there need’s it… You can email him via (Ultimatespellcast@yahoo.com or ultimatespellcast@gmail.com) Don’t give up just yet, the different between “Ordinary” & “Extra-Ordinary” is the “Extra” so make extra effort to save your marriage/relationship if it’s truly worth it.call him +2348156885231

  • Bekar Joe

    Hi My name is “BEKAR JOE” just want to share my experience with the world on how i got my love back and saved my marriage.because i really love SONNIA so much that i can not even do without. I was married for 15years with lilian and 2kids and we lived happily until things started getting ugly and we had fights and arguments almost every time… it got worse at a point that she filed for divorce… I tried my best to make her change her mind & stay with me cause i loved her with all my heart and didn’t want to loose her but everything just didn’t work out… she moved out of the house and still went ahead to file for divorce… I pleaded and tried everything but still nothing worked. The breakthrough came when someone introduced me to this wonderful, great spell caster who eventually helped me out… I have never been a fan of things like this but just decided to try reluctantly cause I was desperate and left with no choice… He did special prayers and used roots and herbs… Within 7 days she called me and was sorry for all the emotional trauma she had cost me, moved back to the house and we continue to live happily, the kids are happy with us. I have introduced him to a lot of couples with problems across the world and they have had good news… Just thought I should share my experience cause I strongly believe someone out there need’s it… You can email him via (Ultimatespellcast@yahoo.com or ultimatespellcast@gmail.com) Don’t give up just yet, the different between “Ordinary” & “Extra-Ordinary” is the “Extra” so make extra effort to save your marriage/relationship if it’s truly worth it.call him +2348156885231..

  • Bekar Joe

    Hi My name is “BEKAR JOE” just want to share my experience with the world on how i got my love back and saved my marriage.because i really love SONNIA so much that i can not even do without. I was married for 15years with lilian and 2kids and we lived happily until things started getting ugly and we had fights and arguments almost every time… it got worse at a point that she filed for divorce… I tried my best to make her change her mind & stay with me cause i loved her with all my heart and didn’t want to loose her but everything just didn’t work out… she moved out of the house and still went ahead to file for divorce… I pleaded and tried everything but still nothing worked. The breakthrough came when someone introduced me to this wonderful, great spell caster who eventually helped me out… I have never been a fan of things like this but just decided to try reluctantly cause I was desperate and left with no choice… He did special prayers and used roots and herbs… Within 7 days she called me and was sorry for all the emotional trauma she had cost me, moved back to the house and we continue to live happily, the kids are happy with us. I have introduced him to a lot of couples with problems across the world and they have had good news… Just thought I should share my experience cause I strongly believe someone out there need’s it… You can email him via (Ultimatespellcast@yahoo.com or ultimatespellcast@gmail.com) Don’t give up just yet, the different between “Ordinary” & “Extra-Ordinary” is the “Extra” so make extra effort to save your marriage/relationship if it’s truly worth it.call him +2348156885231.

  • Shirley Brett

    WOW!! This is indeed a shocking and real Testimony i have ever seen..I visited a forum here on the internet on the 20TH OF MAY 2014, after my husband divorced me and my marriage of 8 years was broken and i was completely heartbroken and all hope was lost because i have tried all means to bring my husband back to me after much begging and did everything possible to make sure that he comes back, but nothing worked out for me…. And i saw a tremendous testimony of this mighty and powerful spell caster called Lord Lugard on the forum.. And i saw how Lord Lugard reunited a marriage and brought the Husband of a woman back to her in just 24 hours..I never believed it, because i never heard nor learnt anything about magic before..Nobody would have been able to convince me about magic spells, not until Lord Lugard did it for me and restored my marriage of 8 years back to me and brought my husband back to me in the same 24 hours just as i read on the internet..i was really surprised and amazed when my husband came to my house and knelt down begging for my forgiveness and for me to accept him back.. I am indeed short of words, and i don’t know how much to express my gratitude to you Lord Lugard.. you are indeed a God sent to me and my entire life and family.. he did his work just as he guaranteed me in 24 hours and it yielded a positive result to me and i was able to get my Husband back. right now my Husband has falling so much in love with me and my kids like never before. This spell casting isn’t brain washing but he opened up his eyes to see how much i love and needed him, i really don’t know how best to appreciate you Lord Lugard for bringing joy into my life and family, and now i am a happy woman once again.. here is his website: http://miracletemplespells.webs.com Email: miracletemple@live.com… Mrs Shirley Brett from Texas City..

  • mi

    DR EKA

    CONTACT DR EKA FOR YOUR PROBLEMS TO SOLVED

    CONTACT DR EKA FOR THE FOLLOWING AREAS IN YOUR LIFE.

    (dreka14demons@gmail.com)

    Customized Love Spells

    This love spell is customized and suitable for bringing the one you
    love to you. If you are not with the one you love for any reason, we can
    cast this love spell to shock and manipulate the one you love into
    coming to you. This spell unites lovers, which includes reuniting
    lovers.

    Lost Love Spells

    Imagine a love spell that could bring back your Ex, return a lost
    lover, or fix a broken relationship. The love spells were created to
    restore the romance and strength of deep love while erasing the
    heartache and pain of the past. By restoring these emotions with a clean
    foundation, my witchcraft rituals offer hope to those who fear
    resentment and deep anger from a lost partner.

    Personalized Love Spell Dagger

    These spells will not take NO for an answer, they never lose, they do
    not know the meaning of the word ‘failure.’ If you have a stubborn ex
    or the one your have loved since the day you first saw them appears
    disinterested in you, you need to alter that – and you can, with these
    threatening love spells. They ensure the one you love, loves you back,
    and it will be true love, as already stated black magic shocks a
    situation and turns it on its head – the one you love will look at you
    in a new light, the light you are looking at them, their feelings for
    you will be overwhelming, they will be well and truly under your spell.

    We customized and personalized 4 spells each spells adds more power’s
    your loved one will be swept off their feet and feel lighted headed and
    weak at the knees each time they think about you.

    Stop A Cheating Partner

    Are you afraid your partner might cheat? Or perhaps you would simply
    like the security of knowing that he or she will never cheat. These
    spells will eradicate any possibility of adultery or cheating by
    dissipating any feelings of attraction or lust your partner may feel
    towards another person. All of your companion’s amorous feelings will be
    harnessed and directed towards you.

    Break-Up Spells

    Many different love spells do exist. You may ask yourself what
    happens when your loved one is in a relationship with someone else? Is
    it ethical to break up such a relationship or marriage?

    Relationship Problems

    Millions of couples experience heartache, and difficult times
    throughout the course of a relationship or marriage. The Love Spell to
    Remove Problems will remove emotional hardship and barriers such as
    jealousy, doubt, and deception between the partners.contact:DR EKA (dreka14demons@gmail.com)

    Gay Love Spells

    All of spells listed this on this site are appropriate for every
    couple, whether they are heterosexual. Every relationship can use an
    infusion of positive energy and same-sex couple run into the same
    problems as heterosexual couple. The spells listed on this site have the
    same potency, regardless of the gender of the couple.

    Witchcraft Spells

    Magic spells are helpful in varied situations of life. Whether you
    are looking for a money spell, protection or luck spell, you can utilize
    the immense potential of my customized rituals. All my spells will be
    customized and personalized to your specific situation and wishes and
    will produce powerful results.

    Cleansing Spells

    Regret and guilt can plague your life like a chronic illness.
    Negative energies build walls around you, creating a life of worry,
    resentment, hopelessness, and emotional poverty. My karma Cleansing can
    wash away the negative energy in your life and return a sense of hope,
    clarity, and happiness to your heart and soul. You will no longer dwell
    on past failures or defeat and this spell will forever wash away
    debilitating guilt. Free yourself from the prison of negativity and open
    your life to a world full of positive forces and unlimited potential.

    Protection Spells

    You have health insurance to protect your health, auto insurance to
    protect your car, and homeowner’s insurance to protect your property.
    What about your physical and spiritual being? A protect Spell is a
    generalized spell designed to protect your being from harm of all
    varieties. The positive forces infiltrate the energies around you and
    protect you against injury from.contact DR EKA (dreka14demons@gmail.com)

    Curse Removal

    The curse and Hex Removal Spells will dissipate all negative energy
    in your life associated with hexes, curses and jinx. If you know or fear
    that someone has hexed you or placed a curse on you then do not delay
    in using this spell. Hexes and curses can cause irreversible damage and
    harm to you and those you love. Urgency is essential. Take immediate
    action with the curse Removal and protection all that you love and
    cherish. So contact.: DR EKA for your healing.(dreka14demons@gmail.com)

  • mi

    CONTACT DR EKA FOR YOUR PROBLEMS TO SOLVED

    CONTACT DR EKA FOR THE FOLLOWING AREAS IN YOUR LIFE.

    (dreka14demons@gmail.com)

    Customized Love Spells

    This love spell is customized and suitable for bringing the one you
    love to you. If you are not with the one you love for any reason, we can
    cast this love spell to shock and manipulate the one you love into
    coming to you. This spell unites lovers, which includes reuniting
    lovers.

    Lost Love Spells

    Imagine a love spell that could bring back your Ex, return a lost
    lover, or fix a broken relationship. The love spells were created to
    restore the romance and strength of deep love while erasing the
    heartache and pain of the past. By restoring these emotions with a clean
    foundation, my witchcraft rituals offer hope to those who fear
    resentment and deep anger from a lost partner.

    Personalized Love Spell Dagger

    These spells will not take NO for an answer, they never lose, they do
    not know the meaning of the word ‘failure.’ If you have a stubborn ex
    or the one your have loved since the day you first saw them appears
    disinterested in you, you need to alter that – and you can, with these
    threatening love spells. They ensure the one you love, loves you back,
    and it will be true love, as already stated black magic shocks a
    situation and turns it on its head – the one you love will look at you
    in a new light, the light you are looking at them, their feelings for
    you will be overwhelming, they will be well and truly under your spell.

    We customized and personalized 4 spells each spells adds more power’s
    your loved one will be swept off their feet and feel lighted headed and
    weak at the knees each time they think about you.

    Stop A Cheating Partner

    Are you afraid your partner might cheat? Or perhaps you would simply
    like the security of knowing that he or she will never cheat. These
    spells will eradicate any possibility of adultery or cheating by
    dissipating any feelings of attraction or lust your partner may feel
    towards another person. All of your companion’s amorous feelings will be
    harnessed and directed towards you.

    Break-Up Spells

    Many different love spells do exist. You may ask yourself what
    happens when your loved one is in a relationship with someone else? Is
    it ethical to break up such a relationship or marriage?

    Relationship Problems

    Millions of couples experience heartache, and difficult times
    throughout the course of a relationship or marriage. The Love Spell to
    Remove Problems will remove emotional hardship and barriers such as
    jealousy, doubt, and deception between the partners.contact:DR EKA (dreka14demons@gmail.com)

    Gay Love Spells

    All of spells listed this on this site are appropriate for every
    couple, whether they are heterosexual. Every relationship can use an
    infusion of positive energy and same-sex couple run into the same
    problems as heterosexual couple. The spells listed on this site have the
    same potency, regardless of the gender of the couple.

    Witchcraft Spells

    Magic spells are helpful in varied situations of life. Whether you
    are looking for a money spell, protection or luck spell, you can utilize
    the immense potential of my customized rituals. All my spells will be
    customized and personalized to your specific situation and wishes and
    will produce powerful results.

    Cleansing Spells

    Regret and guilt can plague your life like a chronic illness.
    Negative energies build walls around you, creating a life of worry,
    resentment, hopelessness, and emotional poverty. My karma Cleansing can
    wash away the negative energy in your life and return a sense of hope,
    clarity, and happiness to your heart and soul. You will no longer dwell
    on past failures or defeat and this spell will forever wash away
    debilitating guilt. Free yourself from the prison of negativity and open
    your life to a world full of positive forces and unlimited potential.

    Protection Spells

    You have health insurance to protect your health, auto insurance to
    protect your car, and homeowner’s insurance to protect your property.
    What about your physical and spiritual being? A protect Spell is a
    generalized spell designed to protect your being from harm of all
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    protect you against injury from.contact DR EKA (dreka14demons@gmail.com)

    Curse Removal

    The curse and Hex Removal Spells will dissipate all negative energy
    in your life associated with hexes, curses and jinx. If you know or fear
    that someone has hexed you or placed a curse on you then do not delay
    in using this spell. Hexes and curses can cause irreversible damage and
    harm to you and those you love. Urgency is essential. Take immediate
    action with the curse Removal and protection all that you love and
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    CONTACT DR EKA FOR YOUR PROBLEMS TO SOLVED

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    Customized Love Spells

    This love spell is customized and
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    love for any reason, we can cast this love spell to shock and manipulate the
    one you love into coming to you. This spell unites lovers, which includes
    reuniting lovers.

    Lost Love Spells

    Imagine a love spell that could
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    clean foundation, my witchcraft rituals offer hope to those who fear resentment
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    Personalized Love Spell Dagger

    These spells will not take NO for an
    answer, they never lose, they do not know the meaning of the word ‘failure.’ If
    you have a stubborn ex or the one your have loved since the day you first saw
    them appears disinterested in you, you need to alter that – and you can, with
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    We customized and personalized 4
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    Stop A Cheating Partner

    Are you afraid your partner might
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    Break-Up Spells

    Many different love spells do exist.
    You may ask yourself what happens when your loved one is in a relationship with
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    Relationship Problems

    Millions of couples experience
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    Gay Love Spells

    All of spells listed this on this
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    Witchcraft Spells

    Magic spells are helpful in varied
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    Cleansing Spells

    Regret and guilt can plague your
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    world full of positive forces and unlimited potential.

    Protection Spells

    You have health insurance to protect
    your health, auto insurance to protect your car, and homeowner’s insurance to
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    Curse Removal

    The curse and Hex Removal Spells
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    and jinx. If you know or fear that someone has hexed you or placed a curse on
    you then do not delay in using this spell. Hexes and curses can cause
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    Take immediate action with the curse Removal and protection all that you love
    and cherish. So contact.: DR EKA for your healing.(dreka14demons@gmail.com)

  • mi

    PROPHET OKPOBO,
    Welcome dear friend. Most likely you are here because
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    Remember this: you are an amazing
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    power to change your life – use it! CONTACT:PROPHET
    OKPOBO:(prophetokpobo1@gmail.c om)

    Negative Energy Shield Spell

    Negative
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    emotions and energy onto you every day of your life.
    One way to avoid
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    not possible. People don’t always mean to be negative, they just can’t
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    If you have too much negative energy compared to positive energy
    Within you, your energy will become out of balance and that disturbs your daily life and your magical power.
    You
    can banish negative energy once it has entered your spirit, but you can
    also use this Negative Energy Shield Spell to protect against the bad
    energy ever getting anywhere near you.
    If you want to stay positive,
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    energy shield. CONTACT:PROPHET OKPOBO(prophetokpobo1@gmail.co m)

    • Becky Ross

      My name is Becky Ross , I really want to testify to the good work of Dr. Ogala for what he has don for me . couple of years ago, my husband left home after we had little misunderstanding, he never returned, no phone calls, no letters, no emails and no sign of him anywhere.and at the same time My daughter got sick so ill, things were so tough for me. I had lost hope, 2 years ago, i met a psychic, he said he would help me, i give him a try but all to no nothing happened, i lost hope completely, my daughter’s situation got worse each day. Last month, i saw a posting concerning the good works of the Spiritual professional(Dr. Ogala), i told the great man my problem and he told me that there is nothing to be worry about for me contacting him all my problem is savol .. He asked me to provide the spiriual materials needed to cast the spells and of cost which i did (Bring Lover back, Healing spell and Career spells). In a matter of weeks, my husband called me and told me he was sorry and that he wants to come back to me and that he would explain everything when he comes back, three days later, i got a call from the new job i apple for with an Real Estate company, right now, my daughter’s is finally healed. I want to thanks DR. Ogala,for what he has don for me and my family. you can contact him via email: Holyspellcast@gmail.com or Holyspellcast@yahoo.com his web site http://holyspellcast.webs.com his the solution to all problem i no you are going to be the next to shera your testsimony to people you can call the great man on +2348039456308…….

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    ALETH YSOLA
    My boyfriend dumped me a week ago after I accused him of seeing someone
    else and insulting him. I want him back in my life but he refuse to have
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    reach to the internet for help and I saw a testimony of how a spell
    caster help them to get their ex back so I contact the spell caster and
    explain my problem to him and he cast a spell for me and assure me of
    2days that my ex will return to me and to my greatest surprise the
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    (12) if your work refuse to pay your, people
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    CONTACT: DR EKA (dreka14demons@gmail.com)

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    JANET
    I never know that spell caster is real, I thought they are fake until I
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    spell caster that help me cast a spell that bring my
    ex boyfriend back to me without any delay. I broke
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    hoping we will get back shortly,but things was
    growing worse until i contacted DR EKA (dreka14demons@gmail.com) who help
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    SILVANA

    Oh my God, I’m so glad to tell everyone the real thing that happen to
    me…My name is SILVANA. If i refuse to share this testimony it means i
    am selfish to my self and to people i love so much whom might have
    similar problems, March 16th about something 7:23pm after taken our
    dinner my husband got crazy started calling a lady name Melisa I love
    you, i was so mad and started crying like a baby…then my husband left
    home for the idiot called Melisa, and never return back home then i
    believed when he then understand his self he will surly come back to
    apology, but instead he left me So i complained to my friend she told me
    she was having such problems in her marriage until she was introduce to
    DR EKA who specializes in bringing back broken homes and broken
    marriages DR EKA cast a spell for me in May 4th surprisingly my husband
    came home May 6th apologizing that i should forgive him that it will
    never happen again, i was so glad and gave the thanks to DR EKA who save
    my marriage, if you are having similar problem you can contact him and
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  • mi

    DOLLY
    I want to use this medium to tell the world about Doctor EKA who helped
    me in getting my lover back with his powerful spell, my ex and i where
    having misunderstanding which led to our breakup though i went to beg
    her several times to please forgive and accept me back because i know i
    offended her but each time i went i always feel more deeply in pain and
    agony because she always walk out on me and would not want to listen to
    what i have to tell but on i faithful day as i was browsing i came arose
    a testimony of a woman whose problem was more than mine and yet Doctor
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    and also contacted Doctor EKA for help via email and then told him my
    story but the only thing he said was that i will wipe you tear with my
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    now i have got my fiance back and we are both living happily. there is
    nothing Doctor EKA can not do with is spell and just as promise my self i
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    1. GETTING YOUR EX LOVER BACK.
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    contact DR EKA (dreka14demons@gmail.com)

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    MRS JOY
    My name is joy and My life is back!!! After 1 years of Broken
    marriage, my husband left me with two kids . I felt like my life was
    about to end i almost committed suicide, i was emotionally down for a
    very long time. Thanks to a spell caster called DR EKA which i met
    online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet,I
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  • Austin Miller

    My Name is Miller am from canada, am here to share this wonderful testimony for what Prophet Solomon has done for me and my family,i have been in a relationship with my lover for more than 3 years until she told me she is no longer interested in this relationship it was like i was dreaming because i never expected it from her. We both were really in love she made me realise that true love exists,i tried my possible best to get her back but i never found a solution until this Godsent came called Prophet Solomon. i got to know about the Prophet when i was listening to the radio when people where giving testimonies on how he has helped them bring back there lover within 18 ,24 hours i was so happy that this was my hour of solution. i contacted him and told him he laughed and said i should not worry that he assures me that within 18 hours i will have my lover back, exactly 18 hours, i received a call from my lover begging me that she never knew what came over her i was so happy and i accepted her back and i promise to share this testimony as well because people might not have time to listen to the radio so i had to try and drop this on the internet where people can simple read this my good news.My lover laura is back with the help of Prophet Solomon, you can contact Prophet Solomon on prophetsolomonenoma@hotmail.com

  • sophia andres

    Hello I am Sophia Andres, I am out here to spreed this
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    will be getting my heart desire without any side effect.He told me what i
    need to do,After it was been done,In the next 12 hours,My love called
    me on the phone and was saying sorry for living me before now and also
    in the next one week after my love called me to be pleading for
    forgiveness,I was called for an interview in my desired company were i
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    My Name is Danielle Hudson. i live and work in Oxfordshire, UK. I will love to share my testimony to all the people in the forum cos i never thought i will have my girlfriend back and she means so much to me..The girl i want to get marry to left me 4 weeks to our weeding for another man..,When i called her she never picked my calls,She deleted me on her Facebook and she changed her Facebook status from married to Single…when i went to her place of work she told her boss she never want to see me..i lost my job as a result of this cos i cant get myself anymore,my life was upside down and everything did not go smooth with my life…I tried all i could do to have her back to all did not work out until i met a Man when i Travel to Africa to execute some business have been developing some years back..I told him my problem and all have passed through in getting her back and how i lost my job…he told me he gonna help me…i don’t believe that in the first place.but he swore he will help me out and he told me the reason why my girlfriend left me and also told me some hidden secrets.i was amazed when i heard that from him..he said he will cast a spell for me and i will see the results in the next couple of days..then i travel back to US the following day and i called him when i got home and he said he’s busy casting those spells and he has bought all the materials needed for the spells,he said am gonna see positive results in the next 2 days that is Thursday…My girlfriend called me at exactly 12:35pm on Thursday and apologies for all she had done ..she said,she never knew what she’s doing and her sudden behavior was not intentional and she promised not to do that again.it was like am dreaming when i heard that from her and when we ended the call,i called the man and told him my wife called and he said i haven’t seen anything yet… he said i will also get my job back in 2 days time..and when its Sunday,they called me at my place of work that i should resume working on Monday and they gonna compensate me for the time limit have spent at home without working..My life is back into shape,i have my girlfriend back and we are happily married now with kids and i have my job back too,This man is really powerful..if we have up to 20 people like him in the world,the world would have been a better place..he has also helped many of my friends to solve many problems and they are all happy now..Am posting this to the forum for anybody that is interested in meeting the man for help.you can mail him on this e-mail;bravespellcaster@gmail.com i cant give out his number cos he told me he don’t want to be disturbed by many people across the world..he said his email is okay and he’ will replied to any emails asap..hope he helped u out too..good luck his email;bravespellcaster@gmail.com,or kindly visit he website http://bravespellcaster.yolasite.com .

  • Chloe Elliott

    Am so happy to testify about a great spell caster that helped me when all hope was lost for me to unite with my fiance that i love so much. Am from Chicago and my name is Elliott Chloe, I had a fairy tale kinda love story and everyone around me call me the lucky one for having such a sweet love life but even the best love story can still go sour, before things went south I tried my best to make things work with everything that I can think of but thing still keeps going south. breakup is a bitch and dealing with life was difficult and everyone see you like an object of pity. I desperately had to do something and that was when i was introduced to this spiritual home, I was told once that if you need it bad enough you will go for it. i came across many spell casters but they promised and nothing came up but an African friend who was my neighbor introduced me to Dr IGBUDU and i emailed him with his email : drezeaguigbudu@yahoo.com and he replied me so kindly and help me get back my lovely relationship that was already gone for 4 months. At first his instructions sounded barbaric but I followed them and inexplicable results happened within 72hrs, Am so happy and all thanks to the GREAT DR. IGBUDU that helped me with his white love powers. If you have any kind of problem email him now for help with
    his email :drezeaguigbudu@yahoo.com

    his website : http://greatigbudu.webs.com

    Phone number: +2347062460831

  • princess nagra

    Hello everyone,who still cares about his/her ex-lover or having any other problem,I am PRINCESS, from London i never thought my ex will come back to me again,i am very happy at last that my ex-lover now my husband is back to me,who left me six months to our wedding just because of some little misunderstanding,But today we are married and we are expecting our little baby,i sincerely want to say thanks to Dr ADODO for helping me cast the spell that brings him back to me,i am grateful and happier than ever before,Thank You Doctor for helping me, and if you are also having problem in your relationship or any part of life, you can also contact him and he will respond to you. email adodospelltemple@gmail.com or call his mobile number +2348156784928

  • ib

    CONTACT PROPHET OKPOBO FOR YOUR
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    (prophetokpobo1@gmail.com)

    PERSONAL PRAYERS
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    1.
    Every padlock from the river, break, in the name
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    2.
    My reject every serpent and scorpion, in the
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    O lord let the rain of your healing power
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    4.
    Calabash of the strongman break in the name of
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    5.
    My prayers stone what are you waiting for,
    strike the head of the goliath, in the name of Jesus.

    6.
    Powers of God arise by thunder; move my life
    forward, in the name of Jesus.

    7.
    Every cage of darkness breaks in the name of
    Jesus.

    8.
    Every root of successful curses be uprooted, in
    the name of Jesus.

    9.
    I command every generational spirit to leave my
    life, in the name of Jesus.

    10.
    I command every stronghold of darkness in my
    body to dry up, in the name of Jesus.

    11.
    ETC.

    CONTACT (PROPHET OKPOBO (prophetokpobo1@gmail.com) FOR YOUR CONTINUE PROTECTION FROM THE
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    KATE BUSH,

    My Names is KATE BUSH,AM from United states .i never believed in
    love spells or magic until i met this spell caster once when i went to
    Africa in June last year on a business summit i meet a man called Dr EKA (dreka14demons@gmail.com), is powerful he could help you cast a spells to bring back my loves gone misbehaving lover looking for some one to love you bring back lost money and magic money spell or spell for a good job i m now happy & a living testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me 4weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 3 year i really loved him, but his mother was against me and he had no good paying job so when i met this spell caster (DR EKA) (dreka14demons@gmail.com), i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him at first i was undecided ,skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try and in 6 days when i returned to taxes my boyfriend (is now my husband ) he called me by himself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married i didn’t believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all i wanted him to do well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid and my husband also got a new job and our lives became much better in case anyone needs the spell caster for some help his email
    address: (dreka14demons@gmail.com)

  • Guest

    Hello, my name is angel I can’t hide this amazing testimony that took place in my life. A powerful spell-caster named Dr. Alimosho helped me to bring back my love who left me while I was six months pregnant and went on a peace keeping mission in Holland. We both love each other and it was a shock to me and it really broke my heart. I tried to call him and both of his lines were disconnected. I tried to reach him on social networks but he deleted me off of them. I tried to reach his parents and they told me that their son said that he does not love me and does not want to see me and they do not know what is wrong. I cried and cried everyday because I loved him very much. Until I gave birth and the baby was one year old, I could not get my love back. Again, I was confused. I do not know what to do and I also lost my job and I have no money to take care of the baby. I was miserable in life so I cried to my sister and told her my problem and said that she knew of one powerful spell caster that helped her when she could not get pregnant. I contacted him by email and he said he will help me and told me that a woman cast a spell upon my man and said he will help me break the spell so my man will come back to me and be mine forever. It was a great surprise to me that everything that he said came to pass. My man came back to me immediately, saying that I should forgive him. I am sending a very big thank you to this powerful and real spell caster. I pray for him to live long and do more of his wonderful work. If you have any kind of problem disturbing you in life, you have to contact this powerful spell caster! He can help you.contact him through this email;alimoshospelltemple@gmail.com

  • james

    I NEVER BELIEVED IN LOVE SPELLS UNTIL I MET THIS WORLD’S TOP SPELL CASTER. HE IS REALLY POWERFUL AND COULD HELP CAST SPELLS TO BRING BACK ONE’S GONE,LOST,MISBEHAVING LOVER AND MAGIC MONEY SPELL OR SPELL FOR A GOOD JOB.I’M NOW HAPPY & A LIVING TESTIMONY COS THE WOMAN I HAD WANTED TO MARRY LEFT ME 2 WEEKS BEFORE OUR WEDDING AND MY LIFE WAS UPSIDE DOWN COS OUR RELATIONSHIP HAS BEEN ON FOR 2YEARS… I REALLY LOVED HIM, BUT HIS MOTHER WAS AGAINST US AND HE HAD NO GOOD PAYING JOB. SO WHEN I MET THIS SPELL CASTER, I TOLD HIM WHAT HAPPENED AND EXPLAINED THE SITUATION OF THINGS TO HIM..AT FIRST I WAS UNDECIDED,SKEPTICAL AND DOUBTFUL, BUT I JUST GAVE IT A TRY. AND IN 7 DAYS WHEN I RETURNED TO USA, MY GIRLFRIEND(NOW WIFE) CALLED ME BY HERSELF AND CAME TO ME APOLOGIZING THAT EVERYTHING HAD BEEN SETTLED WITH HIS MOM AND FAMILY AND SHE GOT A NEW JOB INTERVIEW SO WE SHOULD GET MARRIED..I DIDN’T BELIEVE IT COS THE .SPELL CASTER ONLY ASKED FOR MY NAME AND MY GIRLFRIENDS NAME AND ALL I WANTED HIM TO DO… WELL WE ARE HAPPILY MARRIED NOW AND WE ARE EXPECTING OUR LITTLE KID,AND MY WIFE ALSO GOT THE NEW JOB AND OUR LIVES BECAME MUCH BETTER. IN CASE ANYONE NEEDS THE SPELL CASTER FOR SOME HELP, HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS;okutemple@hotmail.com ……HOPE HE HELPS YOU OUT OUR OPPORTUNITY … CONTACT THIS GREAT SPELL CASTER VIA EMAIL:okutemple@hotmail.com

  • Frank Silver

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  • jane smith

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  • florence James

    my fiancee cheated on me emotionally,with a woman he met at his week long work meeting.after that,he was always preoccupied testing her on his phone.even when we’re in bed.he told me he was sorry,he had been weak,became emotionally attached &had exchanged phone numbers.he said he’ll stop talking to her,but only if she texts him first.i was so mad!!n have since discovered they are still going on.m so hurt,n we’re supposed to be getting married in Marcy.i just want to call off the wedding and my friend ask me to use DR.AIRIOHUODION LOVE SPELL to protect him against other women so i contacted DR.AIRIOHUODION and i explain everything to him, and he told me not to worry that my boy is coming back to love and cherish only me more than before after the spell, so i did what DR.AIRIOHUODION ask me to do and my boy came back telling me he love me that he we not cheat on me again, i have watch him for the past 3 months now he is the best man i have ever meet. u can reach DR.AIRIOHUODION on his direct email: airiohuodiontemple@gmail.com

  • Bella Tina

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  • Cassandra

    THIS IS THE BEST THING THAT HAS EVER HAPPEN TO ME, MY LOVER IS FINALLY BACK TO MY LIFE AFTER A LONG BREAK UP. I HAVE BEEN MEETING THE WRONG SPELL CASTERS UNTIL I WAS DIRECTED TO THIS GREAT MAN CALLED DR ZACK BALO. HE IS A VERY SIMPLE AND KIND MAN. HE ASSURED ME OF MY LOVER COMING BACK TO ME WITHIN 3 DAYS, I DOUBTED HIM BECAUSE SO MANY FAKE SPELL CASTERS ALSO GIVE SUCH HOPE. TO MY GREATEST SURPRISE, I GAVE HIM A TRY TO CAST A SPELL FOR ME, MY LOVER CAME BACK TO ME IN LESS THAN 48HOURS WHICH HE PROMISED ME. I WANT TO THANK DR ZACK BALO FOR RESTORING MY LOVE LIFE AND ALSO TO ADVICE EVERYONE SEEKING THE HELP OF A SPELL CASTER TO QUICKLY CONTACT HIM VIA HIS EMAIL wiseindividualspell@gmail.com OR HIS PHONE NUMBER +2348078927387. HE IS THE BEST SPELL CASTER EVER ON EARTH.

  • Sara Tekle

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  • Marian Gregory

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    • Adams Bella

      My name is Adams Bella, i live and work in Oxfordshire, UK. My life is back!!! After 2 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me with two kids, I felt like ending it all, i almost committed suicide because he left us with nothing, i was emotionally down all this while. Thanks to a spell caster called Dr.Trust of Ultimate spell cast which i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I came across several of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb,cure cancer,and other sickness, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and also spell to get a good paid job so on. He is amazing, i also come across one particular testimony, it was about a woman called Vera, she testified about how he brought back her Ex lover in less than 2 days, and at the end of her testimony she dropped his email.After reading all these, I decided to give it a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. In just 48hours, my husband came back to me. We resolved our issues, and we are even happier than ever.Dr.Trust you are a gifted man and i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man. If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster, Try him anytime, he is the answer to your problems. you can contact him on (Ultimatespellcast@gmail.com or Ultimatespellcast@yahoo.com) or call him +2348156885231. he is the best caster that can help you with your problems.,.

  • Adams Bella

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  • Adams Bella

    My name is Adams Bella, i live and work in Oxfordshire, UK. My life is back!!! After 2 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me with two kids, I felt like ending it all, i almost committed suicide because he left us with nothing, i was emotionally down all this while. Thanks to a spell caster called Dr.Trust of Ultimate spell cast which i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I came across several of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb,cure cancer,and other sickness, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and also spell to get a good paid job so on. He is amazing, i also come across one particular testimony, it was about a woman called Vera, she testified about how he brought back her Ex lover in less than 2 days, and at the end of her testimony she dropped his email.After reading all these, I decided to give it a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. In just 48hours, my husband came back to me. We resolved our issues, and we are even happier than ever.Dr.Trust you are a gifted man and i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man. If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster, Try him anytime, he is the answer to your problems. you can contact him on (Ultimatespellcast@gmail.com or Ultimatespellcast@yahoo.com) or call him +2348156885231. he is the best caster that can help you with your problems….

  • Kirk Dorian

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  • marian bush

    After being in relationship with my husband for nine years,he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should rather contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that never believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I mailed the spell caster, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his email is (LAVENDERLOVESPELL@YAHOO.COM } tel.+2347053977842) you can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship or anything.

  • Nicholas

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  • solie

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  • Julie

    Well, this article makes me so glad that I work full-time. I’ve experienced some snobby nest in my well-to-do town, but I think I tend to be outside of it because quite frankly I’m not home a lot. My child seems happy at school although she does not have as many play dates as other kids. I think we all need to remember is that as our kids grow older and enter middle school and high school moms will not dictate who they are friends with. They will make those choices themselves. I’m not really the type of cares about cocktail parties or social gatherings very much, so maybe that dictates my opinion.

  • Julie

    I would also like to add that I think this stuff only has as much power as you choose to give it. Yes there are those supermoms who seem to dictate everything, but where will they be 10 years from now. Where will your kids be from 10 from now? Life is constantly Evald in, and to let somebody else dictate where you live or how you feel is just ridiculous in my opinion. The bottom line is kids ultimately make friends with each other, not the parents. The notion that you have to be friends with your children’s Friends parents is a myth, and maybe it’s what’s gotten these women into trouble to begin with. She is a little bit less active socially, but I think she’s better off and more of an individual. I am sure that as she separates more begins to become an individual in middle school and high school she will be just fine.

  • helen

    It is absolutely amazing the good deeds of Dr Zadson. After my husband left me life became miserable until i met Dr Zadson online and he promised to bring back my husband in 48 hours. All i did was to believe him and today i am very happy we have a new life. He is a wonderful man and treats me like his daughter you can contact him via eduduzadsontemple@gmail.com or call +2348071222070 and be rest assured of immediate results.

  • Tim

    This certainly describes most of the women out there nowadays.

  • http://www.pajheil.blogspot.com/ NobodyN

    Oh boy does this ring bells. Have one in the family, also had one at my last job. Why didn’t I get sucked in? Because as early as my teens, I had a concept of myself that I was too stubborn to let anybody tamper with; I was manipulation proof. Still am. When somebody calls me a b— because of that, I say “why thank you!”

  • Black Bart

    Who has #1 the time to worry about this horseshit and #2 the lack of IQ points to believe any of this even matters?

  • GreenLantern

    Ok, well i will say the truth. this is what women do to each other, its how they compete and the target is the emotional centre of other womens brains. Why? Because it impacts the woman and her ability to care for her children, how their brains develop and if they do better or worse than their children. I know this sucks, that sistership and unitedness of womankind just is not possible because we are animals.

    What to do. First off what other women think of you should not matter unless you are going to date them, but for most straight women other women are not your friends and will only be so if the social chips are even, the second there not backlash will start. It may be a pay increase, weight loss or even something your kid does well.

    Second in most established neighborhoods women have been suppressing each other for generations and have reduced each other to things outside the range of attractive for men in their neighbourhood because of competition.

    Relational aggression alters emotions, can cause depression and lead to weight gain, low self esteem from comfort eating to deal with the gain, toning down to not provoke another womans envy etc. many women “let themselves go” because they cant take anymore. The aim is to get their man by getting him to leave her.

    If you have been raised believing in sistership or thinking only men are competitive and competitive women are just those who are one of the lads and like to play in the boys game, then you have been wronged. The real girls to watch are those who play in the girls game and compete in this covert way you will not see until you are about 40 by the time its too late, and when you do you will not be able to change it because your attempts will be passed of as envy.

    If you are one of those women who played in the male game for a while, and then decide to settle and have a child, and expect these other moms to not destroy you then you have no chance. These women even destroy their own daughters too, because they cannot switch off the behaviour.

    First off women make each other feel ugly in their natural form, the woman starts altering herself with fashions and then the other women constantly police the fashions, the fashions will be damaging as they are about reducing competition, this is why women like to destroy each others feet. Womens sexuality is another target, they will make you feel too ugly without the fashions to remove them….

    They will get you to spend money, i.e expel resources, they dont gain but they make sure you loose so you have less then them. I know it sucks but its true.

    The more fertile a woman looks the more she will be targeted, and the aim is emotionally to make you less capable of reproduction.

    What you should know and do.

    -dont follow girl land trends
    -be more emotionally connected with your male partner and dont try and get approval from women (i dont include gay women in this)
    -know that women are competition, not just for men but for resources, for the right to be happy and for their childrens space in the future world.
    -know its women who play in the girl game that are the ones to watch, the ones who hide behind a smile, dont fear women who compete the way men do, in fact learn from them and use what you learn against the women who play the girl game!!
    -empower yourself and know that doing this is needed not just to get ahead of men, but to defend yourself from these types of women.
    -when women escaped from oppression they were escaping from these girl circles, when women escape to male dominated jobs they are running away from these networks, infact these networks are what created womens oppression.
    -These girl networks are not there to serve men, women need to be liberated from these networks and feminism almost did it but was destroyed when the women realized they were gonna loose power.
    -women in these networks hold power over men, they are resource traps and they aim to get as much as they can.
    -im a woman telling you all this, one who has researched radical feminism, biology and social gender dynamics.
    -embrace the real reason you want other womens approval, is it the fear of what they may do if you cross them or break the rules?
    -women do and will kill each other if the relational aggression fails.

    Look and think and analyse if men are the oppressors or if something else is really happening.

    Have these networks developed because women had to survive male oppression, or is it the other way around, are men trying to avoid these networks taking over the world destroying peace and women killing each other and each others children?

    Women hate each other, they get envy very easy and when many get a man, they quickly move off sex, so we know its over something else. Its over the security of their children, and for that reason its brutal, if its a case of one womans children living and others dying, she will be quick to kill them. In the past food was scarce, so this threat of other womens sexuality and breeding was life and death for womens children.

    • jennifer

      as a single woman whom might never have children. It is kind of unfair and also most of us … i never speak for someone else so let me say “I” 99.9 percent like the kids not the adult. some vile shit.

    • Becky Ross

      My name is Becky Ross , I really want to testify to the good work of Dr. Ogala for what he has don for me . couple of years ago, my husband left home after we had little misunderstanding, he never returned, no phone calls, no letters, no emails and no sign of him anywhere.and at the same time My daughter got sick so ill, things were so tough for me. I had lost hope, 2 years ago, i met a psychic, he said he would help me, i give him a try but all to no nothing happened, i lost hope completely, my daughter’s situation got worse each day. Last month, i saw a posting concerning the good works of the Spiritual professional(Dr. Ogala), i told the great man my problem and he told me that there is nothing to be worry about for me contacting him all my problem is savol .. He asked me to provide the spiriual materials needed to cast the spells and of cost which i did (Bring Lover back, Healing spell and Career spells). In a matter of weeks, my husband called me and told me he was sorry and that he wants to come back to me and that he would explain everything when he comes back, three days later, i got a call from the new job i apple for with an Real Estate company, right now, my daughter’s is finally healed. I want to thanks DR. Ogala,for what he has don for me and my family. you can contact him via email: Holyspellcast@gmail.com or Holyspellcast@yahoo.com his web site http://holyspellcast.webs.com his the solution to all problem i no you are going to be the next to shera your testsimony to people you can call the great man on +2348039456308…..

  • Cass

    This isn’t just a phenomenon that appears among new moms. It’s apparent when any group of women come together over any kind of prolonged period of time. I am part of a spiritual community and I’ve felt many of the same feelings described by the women in this article. I’ve felt left-out, blacklisted, wrongly accused…it’s awful. I have one friend who I learned had convinced herself that gossiping about you was her way of showing care for you, because she would always wrap the gossip material in “so could you please pray for her”. In the end, I closed my FB account and removed myself from socializing with the worst offenders. Because honestly, they’re oblivious to how they isolate people and the heirarchy and clique they perpetuate.

  • jennifer

    whew…. can’t say that i want to be around someone with that blade behind their back. Mean ladies have gotten really nasty with each other

  • Sandra

    Great article

  • Lauren

    We do all of this in my entitled enclave, but with liberal amounts of alcohol applied. Without that, I would have to move out.

  • Beto Alenjradro

    My name Lucia (Ohio, USA) i want to give thanks and i will always give thanks to Dr DAGAMA who brought back my love that has left me for 6years within 48hours, i have said about this last week but i promised to always tell people about this every week end so that those that did not read about it last will read about it this week, i have been looking for how to get this boy back to my life because i love this boy with the whole of my heart, i could not replace him with any body,one day i was watching my television when i saw a lady giving thanks to Dr DAGAMA and telling the world how he helped her i was so shocked i could not believe it because i never taught that there are powers that can bring back lost love, then that was how i decided to contact him too because i do really need my love back,when i contacted him i told him everything and he told me not to worry that my love will surely be back to my arms within 48hours at first i could not believe because i was thinking how could somebody that has one for 6years come back within 48 hours,so then i decided to watch and see,unbelievable within the next 48hours i got a call from unknown number so i decided to pick the call the next thing i could hear was my loves voice he was pleading and begging me on the phone that i should forgive him that i should forget all that have happened that he did not know what came over him,he promised not to leave for any reason, that he was really sorry for what he did,i was so surprised because i never believed that this could happen,so that was how i accepted his apology and the next morning he came to my house and still pleading for me to forgive him i told him that everything is okay that i have forgiven him, that was how we started again and now we are married, i promised to say this testimony in radio station, commenting this testimony is still okay but before this month runs out i promise to say this in radio station and i will,sir thank you very much.World please am begging you people to try and thank this man for me,or if you need his help here is his email address: drdagamalovespelltemple@gmail.com

  • jessylynn harvey

    Hello, My name is
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    the chief Priest of all the spell casters in India Helped me reunite my
    marriage. To cut the long story shot, after 2 years of break up with my
    Husband with no phone calls or email messages. i was so frustrated
    because i have contacted so many other spell casters with no results.
    when i read about Dr Keke Odin (The Chief Priest Of all the spell
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    How Very True.

  • Park Smith

    HOW DR CUBA HELPED ME GET MY EX BACK
    I AM PARK, my wife dumped me
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    her back in my life but she refused to have any contact with me. she
    changed her mobile number, blocked me from sending her mails and even on
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    job, it was disastrous. I kept seeing on several blogs how a spell
    caster keeps helping people get their ex back and I contacted this spell
    caster called DR CUBA for help, he assured me in 48hours that my ex
    will return to me, and to my greatest surprise my ex called me for the
    first time since we broke up. I am so happy that my love is back again,
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  • jessylynn harvey

    ..Hello, My name is
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    the chief Priest of all the spell casters in India Helped me reunite my
    marriage. To cut the long story shot, after 2 years of break up with my
    Husband with no phone calls or email messages. i was so frustrated
    because i have contacted so many other spell casters with no results.
    when i read about Dr Keke Odin (The Chief Priest Of all the spell
    casters in India) on his website at http://greatkekespelltemple01.webs.com
    so i decided to contact him for help. to my greatest surprise, in just
    24 hours later my Husband called me and started begging for forgiveness.
    i am now a happy woman with a beautiful baby girl.all thanks to Dr Keke
    Odin. You can contact Dr keke Odin On contact him directly on his email at greatkekespelltemple@gmail.com or contact him through his website at http://greatkekespelltemple01.webs.com. his help is assured and guaranteed once again email him directly at greatkekespelltemple@gmail.com

  • David Eric

    I am David Eric,I want to say thank to dr.trust for everything he did in my life. To everyone who doesn’t believe in spell, I was one like you at first. I wasn’t quite sure if I wanted to do this since I’ve tried others so-called spells casters and they did not work and was a waste of my time and money. However, when I read so many testimonials of dr.tust how he help people to get back their ex lover. dr.tust answered all my questions and was very nice about everything, I decided to give it a try. I figured it would be my last try to get my ex girlfriend back. i email dr.trust and tell him everything.he let me know which spells would be most appropriate for me and I chose the one that was to get her back to me and stay with me and to marry me.As soon as he finish the spells, my girlfriend came back into my life! It was a miracle to me and I’m so thankful to him, that is why i am sharing this testimony to those who need his help. Things have been going well, and pretty much according to what dr.trust said would happen. I’m very happy for the love spell dr.trust have done for me, my ex girlfriend is now back to me and we are living so happy. if you asked me or my friends if I would have anticipated how things were right now…no one would believe it! contact is email address (ultimatespellcast@yahoo.com or ultimatespellcast@gmail.com tell +2348156885231) his website: http://ultimatespellcast-net.webs.com

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    • Becky Ross

      My name is Becky Ross , I really want to testify to the good work of Dr. Ogala for what he has don for me . couple of years ago, my husband left home after we had little misunderstanding, he never returned, no phone calls, no letters, no emails and no sign of him anywhere.and at the same time My daughter got sick so ill, things were so tough for me. I had lost hope, 2 years ago, i met a psychic, he said he would help me, i give him a try but all to no nothing happened, i lost hope completely, my daughter’s situation got worse each day. Last month, i saw a posting concerning the good works of the Spiritual professional(Dr. Ogala), i told the great man my problem and he told me that there is nothing to be worry about for me contacting him all my problem is savol .. He asked me to provide the spiriual materials needed to cast the spells and of cost which i did (Bring Lover back, Healing spell and Career spells). In a matter of weeks, my husband called me and told me he was sorry and that he wants to come back to me and that he would explain everything when he comes back, three days later, i got a call from the new job i apple for with an Real Estate company, right now, my daughter’s is finally healed. I want to thanks DR. Ogala,for what he has don for me and my family. you can contact him via email: Holyspellcast@gmail.com or Holyspellcast@yahoo.com his web site http://holyspellcast.webs.com his the solution to all problem i no you are going to be the next to shera your testsimony to people you can call the great man on +2348039456308..

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    MELVIN LEISTER FROM NORTH DAKOTA

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  • Lydia Fred

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  • Godwin Ella

    Je veux partager un témoignage sur la façon dont un lanceur de sort ( OGUN Love Spell EST LA MEILLEURE ) m’a aidé à obtenir mon amant de EX en arrière, je étais mariée à lui en 2005 , depuis lors, je vivais heureux avec lui, mais tout a changé quand je ne ai pu lui enfanta un enfant , de sorte que l’année dernière Janvier je ai été envoyé sur l’emballage de son domicile , je suis sorti de sa maison , je étais dans une grande douleur , je l’air inquiet , coz je l’aimais tellement, je ai dit à mon ami ce qui se passe , elle m’a présenté à la grande lanceur de sorts ( Ogun de charme d’amour ) , elle m’a donné son email , je lui ai envoyé , il m’a demandé d’acheter certains articles fidèlement que je ai fait tout ce qu’il me demandait. Il m’a dit de ne pas déranger , que Im va lui porter immédiatement les enfants , il me revient , deux jours plus tard, mon mari est venu avec ses amis et a commencé à demander pardon , et m’a demandé de revenir à la maison , je lui pardonne , je suis allé revenir à lui , heureusement que je étais enceinte , je suis ici aujourd’hui, suis maintenant une mère , je ai donné naissance à des jumeaux , un garçon et une fille, et nous vivons heureux , DR.Ogun merci beaucoup , si vous êtes en passant par toute difficulté et vous êtes à la recherche de percée de bien vouloir envoyer un courriel Dr ogun sur ogunlovespelltemple@gmail.com , greatsolomonalter@outlook.com l’appeler via +2347032286452

  • Evelyn Jeff

    I can’t believe that i was able to get my Husband back who left me and followed another woman, When he left me i almost took my life because i loved him so much and i never believed that he would have done this to me, but i am so happy that the world have people like Dr. Kizzekpe who can use his powers through the act of spell casting to reunite broken marriage and relationship. I actually came to realize this when i saw his email address online and contacted him and to my surprise i was able to get my husband back within 24hours. I must say that through Dr. Kizzekpe my problem was solved. You can contact him through this details
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  • Cindy Ivan

    I am Cindy Ivan from United Kingdom, Scotland, I did not believe in Love spell magic for i thought and believed it was not real until the day that my boyfriend left me for one Girl, I tried all my possible means to get him back to me but it all seems to be in vain, So one day i saw a testimony on the INTERNET about DR OVIA how he helped one Man to get his wife back, although i didn’t believe in love spell, i contacted him because i loved my Boyfriend and i want him back, So DR OVIA performed the love spell and told me to wait for just 12 hours which i did, So surprisingly, My Boyfriend sent me an apologizing Text and he started begging me, from that day, we became together and up till now, We are in love with each other like never before.. If you need any help, You can as well contact DR OVIA on this Valid Emails ( droviasolutioncenter@gmail.com or droviasolutioncenter@yahoo.com) You can also call him on +2348054049995 or contact him directly Via His Website http://droviasolutioncenter.webs.com/
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  • Cindy Ivan

    I am Cindy Ivan from United Kingdom, Scotland, I did not believe in Love spell magic for i thought and believed it was not real until the day that my boyfriend left me for one Girl, I tried all my possible means to get him back to me but it all seems to be in vain, So one day i saw a testimony on the INTERNET about DR OVIA how he helped one Man to get his wife back, although i didn’t believe in love spell, i contacted him because i loved my Boyfriend and i want him back, So DR OVIA performed the love spell and told me to wait for just 12 hours which i did, So surprisingly, My Boyfriend sent me an apologizing Text and he started begging me, from that day, we became together and up till now, We are in love with each other like never before.. If you need any help, You can as well contact DR OVIA on this Valid Emails ( droviasolutioncenter@gmail.com or droviasolutioncenter@yahoo.com) You can also call him on +2348054049995 or contact him directly Via His Website http://droviasolutioncenter.webs.com/
    My Regards…/.

  • Sarah Luvth

    !!! I Sarah Post This Testimony Coz My Husband Is Back Thanks To Dr.Ukaka

    Hi everyone, I do hope my post gets read and hopefully helps somebody along the line.i will never forget the help Dr Ukaka temple render to me in my marital life. i have been married for 4 years now and my husband and i love each other very dearly . after 3 years of our marriage my husband suddenly change he was having an affair with a lady outside,i notice it then i was praying for divine intervention the thing became more serious i told my pastor about it we prayed but nothing happen. my husband just came home one day he pick up his things and left me and the kids to his mistress outside at this time i was confuse not knowing what to do again because i have lost my husband and my marriage too. i was just checking my mails in the office when i saw someone sharing her testimony on how Dr Ukaka temple help her out with her marital problems so i contacted the email of Dr Ukaka i told him my problem and i was told to be calm that i have come to the right place that i should fill some information concerning my self i did after 30 minus he called me again congratulating me that my problems will be solve within 48 hours. he told me what went wrong with my husband and how it happen.that they will restored my marriage but i will make a free donation to their Ukaka home anything my heart told me. to my greatest surprise my husband came to my office begging me on his knees that i should find a place in my heart to forgive him i quickly ask him up that i have forgiven him.friends your case is not too hard why don’t you give Dr Ukaka a try they work surprises because i know they will also bring back your husband. contact him via freedomlovespell@hotmail.com also contact him on his web site: freedomlovespelltemple.yolasite.com

  • Sandboxes I

    GREAT article! Thanks for writing this and sharing. Makes me feel so much better about all the time I might have considered wasting on these types of people. All validates staying in the city in our tiny little apartment hahah

  • Salamanda

    First world problems…SMH…

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  • love faith

    Thank you for always being there for me. I had spells cast before without success and successful ones, but I never felt so taken care of before. You really care of me and my problems. All problems and wishes are solved now thanks to you dr ogogodu !! Pls tell me how I can repay you for this. if you need is help email him or him (ogogodutempleofsolution@gmail.com or +2348078999655)

    Your friend forever

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  • Becky Ross

    My name is Becky Ross , I really want to testify to the good work of Dr. Ogala for what he has don for me . couple of years ago, my husband left home after we had little misunderstanding, he never returned, no phone calls, no letters, no emails and no sign of him anywhere.and at the same time My daughter got sick so ill, things were so tough for me. I had lost hope, 2 years ago, i met a psychic, he said he would help me, i give him a try but all to no nothing happened, i lost hope completely, my daughter’s situation got worse each day. Last month, i saw a posting concerning the good works of the Spiritual professional(Dr. Ogala), i told the great man my problem and he told me that there is nothing to be worry about for me contacting him all my problem is savol .. He asked me to provide the spiriual materials needed to cast the spells and of cost which i did (Bring Lover back, Healing spell and Career spells). In a matter of weeks, my husband called me and told me he was sorry and that he wants to come back to me and that he would explain everything when he comes back, three days later, i got a call from the new job i apple for with an Real Estate company, right now, my daughter’s is finally healed. I want to thanks DR. Ogala,for what he has don for me and my family. you can contact him via email: Holyspellcast@gmail.com or Holyspellcast@yahoo.com his web site http://holyspellcast.webs.com his the solution to all problem i no you are going to be the next to shera your testsimony to people you can call the great man on +2348039456308..

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