High School Student Says ‘Turning Down Harvard Was Extremely Liberating’
Kevin Cao gave up a chance at the Ivy Leagues because â€śpeople werenâ€™t as warm and inviting.â€ť
Most students would jump at the chance to attend Harvard University if they were accepted. But that wasnâ€™t the case for Virginia high school student Kevin Cao, who passed up an opportunity to spend four years at the elite college so that he could have a more relaxed experience and not deal with the â€ścutthroat competitionâ€ť that would leave him feeling â€śoverworkedâ€ť and â€śstressedâ€ť at an Ivy League school.
In a letter penned to friends and family by Cao, after he made his school choice, explaining why he picked the University of Virginia instead, the Thomas Jefferson High School for Science and Technology senior simply stated that when he visited UVA, he felt happyâ€”something he didnâ€™t experience when he spent time in the Boston area.
â€śI chose to attend UVA because it offers the best undergraduate experience, unparalleled opportunities (during my time at UVA, for grad school, and career-wise) and the best quality of life (in terms of community, balance of academic and social scene, and personal development),â€ť Cao wrote in the public letter posted on Facebook and Google Docs, which later went viralÂ after his hometown newspaper reported on it. â€śRemember that there is much more to a school than the name. Consider where you could really spend the next four years of your life and be happy doing so.â€ť
Boston magazine reached out to Cao for comment about his letter, however, he said in an email that he was â€ślooking to take a step back from all the publicity at the moment,â€ť and declined an interview.
In his open letter, Cao described his experience and visit to Harvard as a sour one, even though since he was a kid, he had dreamed of attending the school.
â€śEver since I could remember, Harvard had been my dream school,â€ť Cao wrote. But when the high school senior took time to visit, after narrowing his school choice down to Harvard, Princeton, or UVA, Cao decided the winters and snooty attitudes of the students and alumni were not for him. â€śAt the Harvard Admitted Students event for the Washington, D.C., Metropolitan area, the first thing that struck me was how affluent andâ€”for lack of a better wordâ€”somewhat pretentious the students and alumni were,â€ť he wrote. â€śMost of my fellow prefrosh [sic] hailed from preparatory schools so expensive that their parents are potentially saving money when they switch over to paying the Harvard tuition next year.â€ť
Then, when he came to the actual campus, following accepted student orientation, thatâ€™s when Cao really decided against attending the school. â€śPeople werenâ€™t as warm and inviting as at other schools; it gave off the typical urban vibe. Iâ€™ll have the rest of my life to live in cities like Boston â€¦ but for the next four years I want a real college experience in a true college town. I think that is something you can never truly recreate and something I am not willing to sacrifice. Not to mention the brutal winters in Boston.â€ť
He added that the school lacked a sense of community, in his opinion, and friends had warned him that it would get lonely at times. â€śWhile itâ€™s nice to tell family friends and strangers you meet in public that you go to Harvard, all that ‘prestigeâ€ť fades as soon as you step foot on campus,’ said Cao, adding that he felt liberated in his decision.
Caoâ€™s choice to skip out on Harvard is likely a rare one, as the school had the lowest acceptance rate in years for the incoming 2017 class, which he would have been a part of. According to reports, from 35,023 applicants, Harvard picked only 2,029 of themâ€”roughly 5.8 percentâ€”making it their lowest admit rate ever.
Source URL: http://www.bostonmagazine.com/news/blog/2013/05/11/kevin-cao-harvard-letter/