The Experts

The Paparazzo
Finding the right wedding photographer is far more complicated than just point and click.

By Erin Graham

When Genevieve de Manio got married 10 years ago, her aunt photographed the festivities—a decision the Carlisle-based wedding photographer regrets today. Now she regularly quotes the father of one of her brides: “The food will be gone tomorrow, but the photographs are forever.” Not sure where to start? Read on for guidance from a woman who learned the hard way.

Why do so many brides hate their wedding photos? Brides want to look like models on their wedding day, but let’s face it, not everyone is. I think many brides are disappointed when a photographer doesn’t meet their expectations on both the wedding day and, equally important, the day they receive the album. To avoid this, a bride should be aware of the options each photographer offers—different approaches to shooting style, a photographer’s personality, and specific approaches to the many details of the wedding day. Basically, figure out what you’re buying before you put down a deposit.

What’s a common mistake photographers make? Not knowing when to offer direction in situations that require it, or knowing when to fall back and let events unfold naturally. I hear stories about control-freak photographers who try to dictate events, even yelling at guests to achieve a desired shot.

Is it important to hire a photographer who specializes in weddings? Yes, because anticipation is so incredibly important when it comes to shooting great candid images. Experience will increase the chances that he or she will be in the right place at the right time to capture that once-in-a-lifetime moment. They’ll also know to fill in gaps between individuals, button Uncle Earl’s middle button (and undo the top), straighten your little brother’s hair, and arrange the bridal party according to height.

Are there more good photographers than bad? Let’s just say that there are few exceptional wedding photographers. Too many photographers think that tilting a camera on an angle will somehow make a wedding photograph look magical.

What are the best bloopers you’ve caught in photos? Two of my favorite wedding photographs capture jaw-dropping reactions to a bride’s newly bestowed jewels: female ring-envy exposed.

What sets a great photographer apart? A great wedding photographer must possess three qualities: an outstanding eye for artistic composition, technical expertise, and a sensitivity and passion for the emotional life of a wedding day. Let’s face it, eight to 10 hours of straight shooting with little or no break is exhausting. If you don’t have a photographer who loves what they do, you’ll see it in their final work.

How should brides choose the spot to take photographs? Gazebos are the worst—too cheesy! Don’t choose a background structure that will compete with you and your wedding party. Have your photographer pick a location with even light; your father will not pay for photographs showing a dapple of sunlight on his bald forehead.

What’s the best and worst thing about being a wedding photographer? The best thing is sharing in the celebration. I have the honored position of recording this important event for generations to come. The bummer is not being able to share these special moments with my husband—he takes care of the kids while I shoot. I’m a hopeless romantic.

Genevieve de Manio, 617-524-1988, genevievedemanio.com.