Best Places to Live 2015: Cracking the New Town Code

If you’ve moved to a new town and your abode is hidden down a winding driveway, mingling is tough. How to break in without feeling like a middle schooler circling the cafeteria? Like any good Realtor would tell you, dress up what you’ve already got. Here’s how.

Illustration by Andy Friedman

Illustration by Andy Friedman

SCENARIO 1: You spent the past 10 years living in Cambridge, where you debated GMO labeling and the future of public education over local brews. Now you’re in a starter house and miss the discourse.

USE: Town listservs. This is where all local gossip unfolds. There’s no better way to become part of a community than by swapping horror stories about third-grade teachers, asking for chiropractor recommendations, and venting about the layout at the new Wegmans. But remember: A snippy post about vaccinations or breast-feeding could brand you for years to come.

SCENARIO 2: You moved to a new town for more space and good schools—and your social calendar has been wiped clean.

USE: Your children. Offspring are the best moving accessory. If you have an infant, it’s easy: Join a new parents’ group and bond with other bleary-eyed zombies desperate for human interaction. If your kids are a bit older, make a beeline to a nearby playground and let them break the ice for you.

SCENARIO 3: You landed a sweet studio in a great building. But your last meaningful conversation was with the ­delivery guy.

USE: Your need for exercise. Join a yoga studio, CrossFit, or anything that forces you into a communal sweating situation. Once someone’s watched you gasp for air while dangling upside down in spandex, you can skip the small talk.

SCENARIO 4: You downsized to a smaller place in a close-knit neighborhood. The neighbors have known one another for years.

USE: Your creative urges. There’s a fine line between alienating your neighbors and turning your home into a conversation piece. Pick one design detail—an unusual door color, a rock garden—and flaunt it. If your house makes a statement, you don’t need to.

SCENARIO 5: You moved beyond Route 128 for the tranquility of nature—but it’s pretty lonely down that long driveway.

USE: Your pet. In the suburbs, it’s tempting to spiral from work to garage to a blissful Netflix coma without seeing sunlight, especially during an endless winter. A canine forces you out of the house, and cleaning up after a dog is a great equalizer.

SCENARIO 6: You love where you live. You also work all the time and have no time to settle in.

USE: Your wardrobe. Nearly every town has an online yard sale or ­designer-clothing-swap group. You can tell a lot about a person based on their taste in gently used Boden sweatshirts. Bonus: purged closets.

SCENARIO 7: After years of renting in the South End, you’ve moved outside the city. You’re experiencing culture shock.

USE: Your alimentary desires. Cultivate a regular wine shop, restaurant, and coffee place. Visit loyally. Yes, even if the food isn’t nearly as good as at the place by your old apartment.

 

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